simple romance plus if shes not mental

i've met some proper nutters, or maybe it's just me but first date, don't get clingy...every guy likes the chase...easy is boring and he'll soon move on, a challenge is satisfying when you've accomplished it. I know that sounds bad but it's not meant in that way. And girls, unless the guy is blind, looks do matter...but every guy is looking for something different unless they're too impressionable and believe what FHM tell them is fit, in which case they wont be happy cos they haven't actually got what their sub-concious desires and so they'll just go from one to the other because they can't quite put their finger on what it is they really want. Anyway, apart from the psychobabble, we'll always go for waht we think of as our type first but ultimately if the attraction and spark is there then we'll go for whoever gives us that quality BUT looks still playa part. Sense of humour, confidence (but not extreme), good head, feel comfortable with them, nice eyes....go on, tell me I'm wrong.

Your a pretty girl and you still; crave justification??? Keera x

hahaha..... least he was honest..I have all three score.

any lady that takes more than an hour should be shoot can handle her drink and must be up for a laugh

Well it is nice to see that some men are interested in having an interesting convo and a laugh.I struggle to believe that they are not at all interested in looks though!Surely everyone has to fancy a date?What do you think?
Joolesx

It would be a lie to say that men don't care about appearance, but like someone else pointed out men's tastes are broadly defined by their age, eg: a 19 year old lad is prolly not going to look further than what his mates would think of any woman he is with (seriously) and wether he is likely to get any action.

Whereas by the time a man reaches his mid-20s I think thats about as far as we ever mature By this point (at least personally) it is more about wether that person interests you on a more intellectual level. Believe me, if all a woman has to talk about is tv shows and how much she hates jordan then I doubt most worthwhile guys would give her more than an evening's attention.

Personally I'm a great believer in what Nick Hornby says: it is what we like that defines us, shared interests and tastes (how many metal fans are partnered with <insert pop-idol winner of the week here> fans, or how many men who read would share their lives with someone who thinks roadsigns are more than their attention span can handle?)

My own experience however leads me to believe that I am only attracted to women who either don't know I exist or are unnatainable. I bet I'm not alone there

There are no set thing someone is looking for. But a confident women always do 'pull'.

I find confidence is the key to getting a guy/gal. But looks are the main thing that you would look for on club pulling, now if your friends with someone and they have a nice personality that can be a great turn on. I love hanging with cool women.

As most have said, it depends on the individual on what they look for in a woman.

What i look for in a woman,in order no less...

1. Intelligence
2. Personality
3. Loyalty
4. Femininity
5. Appearance

Someone to look beyond the looks of a guy and try to find out what is really their (if that sounds right) personnality, smile, honesty and reliable

Need more men to answer this question, seems like its mostly women doing the talking (sorry ladies), we have a post saying what we are looking for, LETS GO GUYS WHATS THE PROBLEM TOO SHY LETS BE HONEST.

well personally i go for personlaity as long as ya can have a laugh witht the girl its all good and u jst gta get along otherwise its jst arguing all the time and everyone mst agree thats crap haha.

so is that realy it face arse tits n beer? cos if so its not as hard as we all thought ladies lol