I find that while woman in general say they would like to meet nice interesting guy, a lot go for the interesting guys that mess them around. I guess there are woman who mess guys around too. (messing with their head etc).
The nice guy who may not be that good looking or great in conversation has a hard time.
I know how to treat a lady but initial meeting is hard.
Pat

'cmon guys, they look for power, converted in diferent things! is the law of nature, the most powerfull one get's the pot!

from my exparience woman want to control the man.in my life i had a lot i mean a lot of women i had a wild life nightclubs ,parties, etc.but then i realised that i need to grew up 1 nice day.now i have a good job,everything i need,but what heppened.................women are not so interested in this at all.and i'm 27.What they want 2 live their own adventure something really wild and cray.and if u r a part of it U r a lucky 1:)when you r different and "interesting" tey r mad about u.but when u have some kind of responsibilities or trying to make your dreams come true.....................forget it.
and lads.........come on nobody these days r not interested in truth,what r u dooing .truth is boring.not neseserally 2 ly but make the truth sound nice,and then women will be interested in u.anyway it's just my opinion from my expierence,

I think there is no one definitive answer as each woman is a unique personality and looking for or wanting something different. I want a man who is intelligent, well educated, a person with a sense of morality, faithful to me, good career prospects, fun to be with and creative when it comes to dating. I would not marry solely for money, as I believe any partnership I entered into would generate money, heck Im only 18 and already doing quite well in that area lol. Jayne

What i can say............all we have our own opinion about it ....
but let me better ask where i can find a normal woman.all women i met are just or mad,or crazy or no brains at all or going in 2 left or right with almost every one(if u know what i mean)or just i dont have any idea how to talk to them.i called tham plastic.so..............
just forget night clubs or pubs.
any ideas?
thx,

I'm going to make this easy for you:

There are no 'normal' women.

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You're actually all more or less correct.

But I believe you're talking about several different things without realising it.

The nice guys are complaining that girls go for good-looking bad boys.

This is generally true, as long as we realise that this refers to girls on a night out looking for a guy to take home and bed for the night. Yes, there are exceptions, but it's generally true.

The girls who say they want a man with more of a personality are also telling the truth, but they are referring to their ideal boyfriend. Again, there are exceptions, but it's generally true.

The other issue here is that, as Aluria said - women get wiser with more experience and are more resitant to the superficial charms, probably because they've seen too many times that there's nothing much more behind it than a roll in the hay, and they know from experience that nice guys tend to be better in bed than pretty boys, because pretty boys often don't care what the woman thinks because they'll just bed another girl the next night anyway.

Most or every female if not of culture looks particularly the musculinity of a man. personality, intelligence, honesty and the likes are add on's to musculinity else you wouldn't find other women going in fo geeks ))

im not to bothers with muscles. i like a man that knows what he wants in life. there is nothing sexier than a guy with determination. looks are not important but it is more to do with the sexual chemistry.
they need to have a brain and be able to hold a conversation.
But to be honest im at that point in my life where im so busy with a full time job and a son that it would also have to be someone who was not funny about only seeing me a couple of times a week. so until i find that man i shall remain single and enjoy myself. mind you a date would be nice lol im starting to feel like an old woman

one thing that women say they like in me is my tanasity, once i get my teath into something i just dont stop...

this is great until they dont like what i have got stuck into!