Hehheh hello everyone

Now, all having been said, that's a thread derailment folks!

My tuppence:

Morbidity, in this sense, is only the opposite of being naive... once you've met, or seen, enough people trying this whole whole thing I think everyone gets a little jaded...

Drugs are fine for those who it's fine for, not for those who it's not.

There will always be someone, and it'll probably appear from the least expected corner of you life! Fair enough, the waiting is horrible, but better that than throw oneself into a(nother) pointless rigmarole.

its about waking up with a smile and being happy with all that you have, grateful for your health, comfortable with your pals and looking forward to every day.
cant always have what you want, but should always want what you have.
get your head round this one and anything else is a bonus..honest guv.

I think its all about intention - maybe many diff people on here and each looking for diff things - some might just want a fling whilst others may want a lifelong partner

seems to me there are just as many women prepared to have love first night as men

having met a few nutters who seem to have baggage and mental health problems i would rather do dating first. Meet several people and if they aint right no hard feelings at least it was a night out and better than sitting at home.
hmmm dinner sounds best for me cos I dont drink and if you go to the movies u cant talk. Then at the end of the night nice to meet ya bye bye
and if ya likes em then u go out again.

As far as drugs go, been there, had the good times but also the bad but glad i had the experience so i can tell the truth about it.
I have just come out of a one way relationship, i gave, she took. Whilst with her, i suffered with mental health problems. I didn't want to break it off because of having a son involved and she is too self centred to care about my son as she always comes first.
Ever since we split 2 months ago now, i have become so strong within myself, for my son and for my future and that i think is the most important thing. I think i have learned my lessons in relationships at the young ol age of 32. We all make mistakes and i think i can speak for most people when i say that we are on here because we have all had bad relationships. That doesn't mean that there isn't the right one out there for all of us and to never give up, but in the mean time, remember that No.1 is the important one. Best of luck to what everyone is looking for out there