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20.08.2006, 19:40 quote

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TravellerRay wrote:
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Well far be it from me to jump in here... and I could be wrong, but Ray I reckon you could do well to mail Vivizara.....

Tamz... The Virtual Cupid


Hi, I appreciate the help, and do not deny that I can certainly use some help here.

My apologies to Vivizara, I am living in London and working in Holland. I have a history of unsucesful distance relationships, very much a repeat offender. So it's just that my chances of getting to Scotland in the next half year are not great.

No offence is intended, but this is why I haven't taken up the suggestions about contact. Always happy to chat.

Ray


No offence taken Ray Smile . I was just being friendly. I quite agree regarding the distance thing......mind you most people are a long distance from me Exclamation

 
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20.08.2006, 19:42 quote

ScotsDave
ScotsDave Joined: 08 Aug 2006 Posts: 1073 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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moldypeach wrote:
ScotsDave wrote:
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i reply to most people as long as they dont ask for msn chat etc because its obvious what they are after. Generally what scares me off is someone getting a bit heavy when i give no signs of liking them, mainly just because i dont like to have to hurt their feelings when it goes too far, i try to be honest but some people just look past it, if i like people they generally know by the way i chat Smile



Understand it must be hard for people like you getting PM to be honest I like the forums have good laughs at same time get to know people! then you can contact or not!!!!!!Bad manners of me nice to meet you!!!!! Smile

I don't think that comment was very nice, i never said once in my post i'm not greatful for my p.m's and i'm sure i don't get as many as a lot of girls on here. All i meant was i don't see why i should ignore messages from genuine guys just because they're not my type etc, i have lots of friends and harmless flirting is fine, it's just that if it all gets a bit heavy with someone i like only as a friend i just hate to tell them and let them down so it puts me off. Anyways nice to meet you too maybe i'll message you sometime make you feel better



Just seen the bit at the end now whos being not nice make me feel better thats news to me did'nt know i was needing any pms

 
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20.08.2006, 19:44 quote

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toby wrote:
moldypeach wrote:
i reply to most people as long as they dont ask for msn chat etc because its obvious what they are after.


I think you must probably have had lots of bad experiences with an attitude like that.

Hm...I usually ask for MSN or Skype...because chatting is quicker then sending messages and waiting for a reply...I also sometimes ask for a webcam chat if I have the feeling they might not use their own pictures.
I don't like being asked to go on MSN (or similar)too quickly.I like to get to know someone a little bit first, then if i feel comfortable with them. then I'll 'chat'.

 
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20.08.2006, 19:56 quote

TravellerRay
TravellerRay Joined: 30 Jul 2006 Posts: 89 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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I lived in Amsterdam for 3 years. I miss my bike so much!! Getting stuck in the tram tracks sucks though. What idiot designed them to be exactly the same width as a bike tyre!!!


I have worked in Rotterdam before. Quite like the directness of the Dutch, very Australian. I am more worried about the small cars that used the bike lanes in Rotterdam. Seemed whatever fitted was allowed. Thanks for the warning about the tram tracks.

 
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20.08.2006, 20:00 quote

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TravellerRay Joined: 30 Jul 2006 Posts: 89 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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No offence taken Ray . I was just being friendly. I quite agree regarding the distance thing......mind you most people are a long distance from me


Hi Vivizara, I do like Scotland, especially Skye. I have done an Otter survey off the isle of Coll. Very quilty because I haven't visited some relatives in Inverness for a few years.

Hope your doing well.

Ray

 
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20.08.2006, 20:52 quote

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toby wrote:
moldypeach wrote:
i reply to most people as long as they dont ask for msn chat etc because its obvious what they are after.


I think you must probably have had lots of bad experiences with an attitude like that.

Hm...I usually ask for MSN or Skype...because chatting is quicker then sending messages and waiting for a reply...I also sometimes ask for a webcam chat if I have the feeling they might not use their own pictures.
oh so u are the sneaky one that keeps messaging me for a webcam chat, lol just teasing toby. but i dont usually like it when i guy wants to cam after just a few messages makes me feel funny about what they want to show me lol. sorry back to topic, just be yourself, chat with all the women here, give your input and when first chatting with a girl, leave the love out until further notice.
from the mother of the forums lol

 
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