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20.08.2006, 12:48 quote

windymiller2959
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ladytracexx wrote:
vivizara wrote:
TravellerRay wrote:
No mam, honest I am always polite and respectful. I believe the aim is to encourage contacts. And I was brought up with a few philosophies of manners and ways to treat a lady. Cling to old fashion beliefs about flowers, chocolates and holding doors open. Bit hard to convey that sincerely in a virtual environment.

Ray


Well obviously not that hard as it was obvious to me


There is nothing wrong with beig a gent! Infact i wish there were more like you! Confused

And there is another gent joining you now Very Happy

 

20.08.2006, 12:50 quote

ladytracexx
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windymiller2959 wrote:
ladytracexx wrote:
vivizara wrote:
TravellerRay wrote:
No mam, honest I am always polite and respectful. I believe the aim is to encourage contacts. And I was brought up with a few philosophies of manners and ways to treat a lady. Cling to old fashion beliefs about flowers, chocolates and holding doors open. Bit hard to convey that sincerely in a virtual environment.

Ray


Well obviously not that hard as it was obvious to me


There is nothing wrong with beig a gent! Infact i wish there were more like you! Confused

And there is another gent joining you now Very Happy



Hello and welcome to the mayhem and chaos of the forum...
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20.08.2006, 12:54 quote

windymiller2959
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ladytracexx wrote:
windymiller2959 wrote:
ladytracexx wrote:
vivizara wrote:
TravellerRay wrote:
No mam, honest I am always polite and respectful. I believe the aim is to encourage contacts. And I was brought up with a few philosophies of manners and ways to treat a lady. Cling to old fashion beliefs about flowers, chocolates and holding doors open. Bit hard to convey that sincerely in a virtual environment.

Ray


Well obviously not that hard as it was obvious to me


There is nothing wrong with beig a gent! Infact i wish there were more like you! Confused

And there is another gent joining you now Very Happy



Hello and welcome to the mayhem and chaos of the forum...

Thankyou for leading me by the hand safely here..lol

 

20.08.2006, 12:58 quote

ladytracexx
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windymiller2959 wrote:
ladytracexx wrote:
windymiller2959 wrote:
ladytracexx wrote:
vivizara wrote:
TravellerRay wrote:
No mam, honest I am always polite and respectful. I believe the aim is to encourage contacts. And I was brought up with a few philosophies of manners and ways to treat a lady. Cling to old fashion beliefs about flowers, chocolates and holding doors open. Bit hard to convey that sincerely in a virtual environment.

Ray


Well obviously not that hard as it was obvious to me


There is nothing wrong with beig a gent! Infact i wish there were more like you! Confused

And there is another gent joining you now Very Happy



Hello and welcome to the mayhem and chaos of the forum...

Thankyou for leading me by the hand safely here..lol



you are more than welcome..... enjoy the fun laola
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xxTxx

xx Moderator xx




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20.08.2006, 13:02 quote

Anonymous

i reply to most people as long as they dont ask for msn chat etc because its obvious what they are after. Generally what scares me off is someone getting a bit heavy when i give no signs of liking them, mainly just because i dont like to have to hurt their feelings when it goes too far, i try to be honest but some people just look past it, if i like people they generally know by the way i chat Smile

 

20.08.2006, 13:47 quote

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moldypeach wrote:
i reply to most people as long as they dont ask for msn chat etc because its obvious what they are after. Generally what scares me off is someone getting a bit heavy when i give no signs of liking them, mainly just because i dont like to have to hurt their feelings when it goes too far, i try to be honest but some people just look past it, if i like people they generally know by the way i chat Smile



Understand it must be hard for people like you getting PM to be honest I like the forums have good laughs at same time get to know people! then you can contact or not!!!!!!Bad manners of me nice to meet you!!!!! Smile

 

20.08.2006, 18:49 quote

TravellerRay
TravellerRay Joined: 30 Jul 2006 Posts: 89 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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Well far be it from me to jump in here... and I could be wrong, but Ray I reckon you could do well to mail Vivizara.....

Tamz... The Virtual Cupid


Hi, I appreciate the help, and do not deny that I can certainly use some help here.

My apologies to Vivizara, I am living in London and working in Holland. I have a history of unsucesful distance relationships, very much a repeat offender. So it's just that my chances of getting to Scotland in the next half year are not great.

No offence is intended, but this is why I haven't taken up the suggestions about contact. Always happy to chat.

Ray

 

20.08.2006, 18:56 quote

Anonymous

TravellerRay wrote:
Quote:
Well far be it from me to jump in here... and I could be wrong, but Ray I reckon you could do well to mail Vivizara.....

Tamz... The Virtual Cupid


Hi, I appreciate the help, and do not deny that I can certainly use some help here.

My apologies to Vivizara, I am living in London and working in Holland. I have a history of unsucesful distance relationships, very much a repeat offender. So it's just that my chances of getting to Scotland in the next half year are not great.

No offence is intended, but this is why I haven't taken up the suggestions about contact. Always happy to chat.

Ray
I am so jealous...where in Holland?

 

20.08.2006, 19:11 quote

Anonymous

ScotsDave wrote:
moldypeach wrote:
i reply to most people as long as they dont ask for msn chat etc because its obvious what they are after. Generally what scares me off is someone getting a bit heavy when i give no signs of liking them, mainly just because i dont like to have to hurt their feelings when it goes too far, i try to be honest but some people just look past it, if i like people they generally know by the way i chat Smile



Understand it must be hard for people like you getting PM to be honest I like the forums have good laughs at same time get to know people! then you can contact or not!!!!!!Bad manners of me nice to meet you!!!!! Smile

I don't think that comment was very nice, i never said once in my post i'm not greatful for my p.m's and i'm sure i don't get as many as a lot of girls on here. All i meant was i don't see why i should ignore messages from genuine guys just because they're not my type etc, i have lots of friends and harmless flirting is fine, it's just that if it all gets a bit heavy with someone i like only as a friend i just hate to tell them and let them down so it puts me off. Anyways nice to meet you too maybe i'll message you sometime make you feel better

 

20.08.2006, 19:16 quote

Anonymous

[/quote]
I don't think that comment was very nice, i never said once in my post i'm not greatful for my p.m's and i'm sure i don't get as many as a lot of girls on here. All i meant was i don't see why i should ignore messages from genuine guys just because they're not my type etc, i have lots of friends and harmless flirting is fine, it's just that if it all gets a bit heavy with someone i like only as a friend i just hate to tell them and let them down so it puts me off. Anyways nice to meet you too maybe i'll message you sometime make you feel better [/quote] what's PM's?! Embarassed

 

20.08.2006, 19:18 quote

Anonymous

Private Message's

 

20.08.2006, 19:24 quote

TravellerRay
TravellerRay Joined: 30 Jul 2006 Posts: 89 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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I am so jealous...where in Holland?


A town called Harlem. 20 minutes by train from Amsterdam. I will be Dutch and cycle into work each day. Was almost run over by a cycle on my first day back, which is when you say, yes I am back in Holland.

 

20.08.2006, 19:26 quote

Anonymous

TravellerRay wrote:
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I am so jealous...where in Holland?


A town called Harlem. 20 minutes by train from Amsterdam. I will be Dutch and cycle into work each day. Was almost run over by a cycle on my first day back, which is when you say, yes I am back in Holland.
I lived in Amsterdam for 3 years. I miss my bike so much!! Getting stuck in the tram tracks sucks though. What idiot designed them to be exactly the same width as a bike tyre!!!

 

20.08.2006, 19:33 quote

toby

moldypeach wrote:
i reply to most people as long as they dont ask for msn chat etc because its obvious what they are after.


I think you must probably have had lots of bad experiences with an attitude like that.

Hm...I usually ask for MSN or Skype...because chatting is quicker then sending messages and waiting for a reply...I also sometimes ask for a webcam chat if I have the feeling they might not use their own pictures.

 

20.08.2006, 19:36 quote

ScotsDave
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moldypeach wrote:
ScotsDave wrote:
moldypeach wrote:
i reply to most people as long as they dont ask for msn chat etc because its obvious what they are after. Generally what scares me off is someone getting a bit heavy when i give no signs of liking them, mainly just because i dont like to have to hurt their feelings when it goes too far, i try to be honest but some people just look past it, if i like people they generally know by the way i chat Smile



Understand it must be hard for people like you getting PM to be honest I like the forums have good laughs at same time get to know people! then you can contact or not!!!!!!Bad manners of me nice to meet you!!!!! Smile

I don't think that comment was very nice, i never said once in my post i'm not greatful for my p.m's and i'm sure i don't get as many as a lot of girls on here. All i meant was i don't see why i should ignore messages from genuine guys just because they're not my type etc, i have lots of friends and harmless flirting is fine, it's just that if it all gets a bit heavy with someone i like only as a friend i just hate to tell them and let them down so it puts me off. Anyways nice to meet you too maybe i'll message you sometime make you feel better



Think you got the wrong idea never was meaning it to be having a go at you at all just there was nothing i wrote that you could have got upset over please read again Smile

 
 
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