Is it just me or do us people who have, shall I say not been blessed by good looks never get any luck on these dating sites.

Ive had quite a few visitor, a few messages back and forth between people but nothing has ever come of it.

So have any of my fellow troll like users been lucky in getting a date from here, or do the ladies just go by the pictures alone

And yes before you ask thats me in the photo, and no im not getting ready for halloween

awwww im sure theres lots of girls out there who are interested if they just go on pictures then they clearly aint worth meeting anyway and i wouldnt say u look like a troll dont be so hard on yourself theres someone out there for everyone

Well I never tend to go on pictures anyway, to be honest the guy could have the most awesome picture in the world but if I got more info on him or had a read of his profile and he didn't seem too genuine/down-to-earth or have a decent personality then I probably wouldn't be as interested (if I'm honest). I think patience is key (I didn't get too many messages originally, but after adding more info to my profile maybe people feel like they know a bit more and are more comfortable with messaging me?)!

The key thing is, one person's poison is another woman's potion. A lot of people think Angelina Jolie is hot; I personally don't. Some people like stick thin women, others like ladies on the larger side. Someone women will only date a muscle-bound Adonis, other women will crave something totally different.

The important thing is; just be you. That's what people will want. And you can't pretend to be something you're not. That won't get you anywhere. Long as you're natural, show that you have a lot to give, you'll find someone for you.

MakoMW is right never let you self down, i mean if the women looks at the pic alone then she is shallow, its the personality that counts, be yours self make her laugh and she will be yours

I think looks matter more on the net then real life, and from experience this site is one of the worse. Shallowness abounds on here.

Pics are king on the net, no matter what people say. Put up a bad pic and you are buggered, no matter what your personality is like.

Thats just from experience

When I show up on a date the woman always bursts out laughing so you're defo right...!

Sorry to tell ya, fella, but you're not ugly at all (I looked and paid attention, even if the second pic has weird light and, well, you should probably lose it).

So you should find other reasons for which ladies don't bite.

I, too, agree with what Mako said, although, let's face it... Some people are just plain wrong. LOL

Oh and you can trust me, I'm well known for talking all sorts of crap and disregarding feelings. LOL

I'm afraid your biggest problem is that you are a member of the Human race. Try answering to that one first...!!!

ok i'm gonna ad my 2p's worth here
i met a good woman on here-we started something and were communicating on i m regularly - i had one pic on the i m -
we were getting really close-she really liked my personality
we were having verbal sexual relations-it was going great..until
i took some new pics and sent her them-different lighting-different angle and bam she dumped me.and she told me it was because of my looks-she admitted she felt shallow about it-bless her-
the only women i've chatted to so far who say looks don't matter-end up being scammers for money.
i don't want to assume it will always be that way-but that's often my experience in the real world too.i do meet women here and there-sometimes they seem to like me-sometimes my confidence perhaps lets me down-but plenty of times when i thought there's beeen some interest and acted on it-it turns out i was wrong.so in my experience there's no fairy tail ending for us uglies-sorry to say

A woman I once talked to on here offered to meet me just to rim my anus (true story). I turned her down in the end, but it just goes to show that some women on here don't look at a man's face as being a key priority.

Few years ago I kept getting messages from a women on another site...she wanted to meet me [10 years younger ], I kept putting her off saying it was the distance, but it was really her pic. After about 2 years of putting her off, I thought..I'm being a bit hypocritical because of what I say on these sites. So I decided to meet her...when I did she was much better than her pics. Which confirms what I’ve always said? We got on really well. But distance was indeed the problem.

Seeing a women now fairly local..didnt have a very good pic. Met her, and she looked a bit better then her pic. Although not sure I'm that attracted to her, but like her personality. So will see how it goes

I think we are all beautiful in our own way. What one person may like, another person may hate…With that being said yes a picture does help and it does not make you shallow, by no means. Its there as a marker, we can all talk to people and get along great with them (as friends) but….you have to be sexually attracted to a person in order for you to build on any type of relationship on a physically and emotionally level.

A person could be extremely good looking but if he is a jerk his looks quickly fade and most women will stay away (unless they like that kind of thing). If you have an average person, to the one that he attracts his looks will only improve. There is some truth to the words ‘Love is Blind’ Patience is key. Good things come to those who wait!