hey Doc you actually look a lot like this guy i know locally, I think he's one of the docs from the hospital across the road, same kind of build, similar hair, in fact you could be twins, his beard comes and goes though (obviously whereas yours is a static pic), and he's got a stunner (i mean a nice looking gf, not a cattle-prod),......so must be something else m8...

the whole attractive arguement is one that comes up a lot on here.

If someone likes larger ladies then they would see me as attractive.

If someone likes the Kate Moss style of women then they would see me as unatractive!

Which one is right? Neither, to be honest and both!

If the person has half a brain then it is all about what is attractive to them and not what society thinks they should find attractive.

As for intelligence - this is the 2000 version of the hunter-gatherer, personally I like to think that a man I dated could challenege me mentally and is clever enough to earn a good living!

Yeah but 2000 was soooo 7 years ago!

I personally dont think you should have to dumb it down, because that would be changing yourself. Then, if you did meet someone from the site, you would be different than you expected. I say, be yourself, talk how you would, and if she isnt interested, or doesnt even understand, then she isnt the right person!

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me thinks we hav a problem ^^

I must admit I prefer people to write in emails and letters. I don't mind on messenger or text messages. I do that myself only because it is quicker. There is nothing wrong with intelligence either. It is nice to have good conversations:)

Try shaving off the beard.