I hope no one takes this the wrong way.

As I said on my profile, blond women seem to be attracted to me. I've been out with, slept with [one nighters] some beautiful blond women. This might not seem a problem to some people, but I am more attracted to brunettes. Brunettes just dont seem interested in me.

When I go out with my mates, I always get a Blond attracted me, but it tends not to be mutual. I try and chat up a brunette, and I get totally blanked. I then end up talking to the blond, which tends to leave me disapponted. I cant really understand why though. ??
If I see a blond in a pub or club, I start talking to her knowing she will probably be interested in me, which they nearly always are..but I see a brunette, then I lose interest in the blond and wish I could talk to her.

Nothing against blonds because I know some lovely ones..but I'm just more attracted to brunettes. Probably one of the reasons I haven't got together with anyone.
All the crushes I have had have been brunettes.

As I say, I'm not saying anything against blonds, but it has been a big problem to me. Also I don't want to sound arrogant or that I'm anything special, because I'm not. In some ways I wish it wasn't such a problem.
Anyone else have a problem like this ?

Just something else I wanted to get off my chest here on flirtbox.


PS: I'm also turned on by proper ginger/redheads..but that's a sexual thing

Poor poor you,.... god life must be so terrible....

(dripping with sarcasm)

Only joking,.... people frequently judge on looks,.... maybe they think you are one of "the beautiful people" and are treating you with suspicion and disdain as a result? A sort of precipitory first-strike against you in anticipation of you making them feel bad about themselves.

Or maybe I don't have a clue and what I said is nonsense... it certainly reads that way.

Good luck with your "problem"

sheesh, some people....

you could just go out with a blond and then dye her hair to your taste while she sleeps,....

Red October is on the ball though!

well as you have no pic dear jeggea... i can't tell you (being a blonde myself) whether i would go for you or not lol....

but my type is usually this........ tall, built, dark hair, blue eyes, and complete assholes lol

it's not my fault i go for these types and i'm not saying that is the ONLY type i go for....but that is usually the scene.

It's difficult to feel sympathy with someone who's sick of sleeping with hot blondes...you can send any you reject my way mate.

lol i've been blonde brunette purple green blue black pink red yellow orange lilac multi coloured, but i go for all different types looks dont bother me it's personality so you just never know

lol i didn't like the blonde look, i'm only blonde when i'm about to die another mad colour over the top