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25.07.2006, 16:26 quote

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plan b we sneek round to all of our mates house's sign them up and set this place as their new homepage Laughing

 

25.07.2006, 16:35 quote

ladytracexx
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lol i like that idea!!! Laughing
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25.07.2006, 16:36 quote

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I have sent several emails to my contacts but to no avail.

These are supposed to be good friends of mine as well, I have even asked them to join my board, still no responce Sad

What's up with some of these guys, don't they want to join in the fun, the odd ebate etc etc Confused

 

25.07.2006, 16:53 quote

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Hmmmm!!!! PLAN B Twisted Evil Twisted Evil Perhaps people are leaving due to the lack of contact messages on the dating part of the site????? UT DISALUSIONMENT Exclamation that could play a large part in peoples decissions!!! plus a total out numbering in the male to female ratios Exclamation plus a quick glimpse of the newbies today revealed 75% of the females were lesbian Exclamation Also there is a lot of dormant profiles Exclamation Is it worth keeping a profile that hasn't been used in 12 months UT UT Laughing Laughing Now i will probably get shot down Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing
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25.07.2006, 16:55 quote

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eccles wrote:
Hmmmm!!!! PLAN B Twisted Evil Twisted Evil Perhaps people are leaving due to the lack of contact messages on the dating part of the site????? UT DISALUSIONMENT Exclamation that could play a large part in peoples decissions!!! plus a total out numbering in the male to female ratios Exclamation plus a quick glimpse of the newbies today revealed 75% of the females were lesbian Exclamation Also there is a lot of dormant profiles Exclamation Is it worth keeping a profile that hasn't been used in 12 months UT UT Laughing Laughing Now i will probably get shot down Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing


Naaaaaa you are right i think! Embarassed
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25.07.2006, 17:03 quote

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Within reason the answer lies in peeps stating to message each other! even if it is to say no thanks! MANNERS MAKETH MAN AND WOMAN AND COST NOTHING! Another answer is to have a private message tab on the forums!!! So rather than trying to interest peeps who may spend a day browsing (another dormant profile) lets start messaging again!!!! and also note to moderators there are some rather objectionable forum posts sneaking through!!! and Toby I've learn quite a bit about geography on this site!!!! Russian places in London!!!! African places in Wales!!!!!!! and i'm a Cartographer too!!!!! I draw maps!!!!! I've started to get the spam messages as well!!!! UT UT UT UT UT UT
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26.07.2006, 05:04 quote

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eccles wrote:
Within reason the answer lies in peeps stating to message each other! even if it is to say no thanks! MANNERS MAKETH MAN AND WOMAN AND COST NOTHING! Another answer is to have a private message tab on the forums!!! So rather than trying to interest peeps who may spend a day browsing (another dormant profile) lets start messaging again!!!! and also note to moderators there are some rather objectionable forum posts sneaking through!!! and Toby I've learn quite a bit about geography on this site!!!! Russian places in London!!!! African places in Wales!!!!!!! and i'm a Cartographer too!!!!! I draw maps!!!!! I've started to get the spam messages as well!!!! UT UT UT UT UT UT


I wonder why junk mail has been called spam??? Doh!!! i thought that was a tinned meat?? Rolling Eyes
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26.07.2006, 05:52 quote

toby

eccles wrote:
t worth keeping a profile that hasn't been used in 12 months


A lot of people come back even after 2 or 3 years....i know from experience!

So "dormant" profiles are usually not dormant forever....

Apart from that if you contact people that are online or have recently logged in, this should not be a problem anyhow!

 

26.07.2006, 05:55 quote

toby

eccles wrote:
I've started to get the spam messages as well!!!! UT UT UT UT UT UT


If everyone uses the "report a profile" or "report junkmail" button,
those profile are removed a lot quicker!

What I recently did, is to automatically change countries to the "correct" countries by analysing the ip addresses...

so if it was set to "united kingdom, england, london" this will end up showing as "ghana, london" .... this should also help to spot fakes more easily...

Toby

 

26.07.2006, 06:00 quote

eccles
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Thanks Toby. It can be a bit frustrating though when you are wading through the photo browse! The scammer i had promptly disappeared along with her message to me!!!! her name was sandy larry from glasgow, then texas and then Africa!!!!!!!!
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26.07.2006, 10:02 quote

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I always do the same. whenever I get mail I always reply and recommend the forums! Very Happy

 

26.07.2006, 17:28 quote

toby

flowerpotfox wrote:
Help me if you can!
Is there a way of seeing all the messages I've sent - including who to and the text?
I've had lots of messages and I've replied to some but have forgotton what I actually wrote back to them!

Also, not everyone can see my photos. It says you have to be a member. I thought this was a free site and everyone can see photos if they had been downloaded? I cannot see my main photo either.....

Cheers

A confused person



Your settings are wrong...I can not even send a message to you.
Check the settings "Who may contact youy" and "Who may see your profile"

 

26.07.2006, 18:13 quote

toby

eccles wrote:
Thanks Toby. It can be a bit frustrating though when you are wading through the photo browse!


What do you mean?
The lesbians? Hm...at least you CAN browse the pictures...would it be less frustrating if I disabled the picture gallery? Laughing

 
 
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