ok hi people,i guess im the newbie here so please be kind.i need advice on meeting someone.i have been out of the dating game a long time
single for too long.this is the first and boldest step ive took
i am a nervous and shy man.i find it hard going to pubs.i feel so out of place. any ideas as i need help

First of all welcome to the site

Secondly don't ask me for advice! I'm sure the lovely ladies on here will gladly give you some advice, in the meantime get stuck in to the forums and get to know the great people here

Hiya and welcome.

The only advice I can give is be yourself and try to go with the flow. The bonus with the internet is that you can get to know someone without the intimidation of being in a setting you aren't used to which helps to keep the nervousness at bay

I'm with Moose on this, but then pubs isnt always the best place to find women.

Is it mixing you have problems with?
You could always take up a few interests, like dancing or drama etc. there are plenty of clubs that want men to help out.

Shyness is something you have to probably try and beat.

Hey dustysky and welcome to the forums