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18.09.2006, 03:52 quote

ladytracexx
ladytracexx Joined: 20 May 2006 Posts: 3458 Location: United Kingdom, England, Cornwall
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Time IS the key here.......i think most of us here on this site have suffered low self esteem and lack confidence in some way or another over the years. I myelf am still on a recovery period after my split of 24yrs.... Why try to run? before you can walk! It will take the time it takes andeveryday is an new one! everyday gets a little bestter than the last and tomorrow will be better than today! Just allow yourself the time and space to re-discover yourself.... you will be fine although you don't think so presently.
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18.09.2006, 09:32 quote

Anonymous

saintsfan wrote:
Maybe so, but doing ALL the chasing can get rather tiresome.


Then do what i do and don't bother. Can't see the point of this 'chasing' thing on either side. Yeah, I'm shy and i feel sick when making contact, especially if you've been talking a while and it's got to the phoning stage. The way i look at it is, he's likely to be just as nervous, so someone's got to make the first move!!

 

18.09.2006, 16:45 quote

Anonymous

saintsfan wrote:
haha, my neck doesnt bend that far down Razz


lol Laughing

 

18.09.2006, 20:17 quote

saintsfan

redoctober wrote:
saintsfan wrote:
Maybe so, but doing ALL the chasing can get rather tiresome.


Then do what i do and don't bother. Can't see the point of this 'chasing' thing on either side. Yeah, I'm shy and i feel sick when making contact, especially if you've been talking a while and it's got to the phoning stage. The way i look at it is, he's likely to be just as nervous, so someone's got to make the first move!!


Starting to feel like not bothering now, getting myself worked up for no reason. The way I am seeing it atm is they arent interested so, I will wait for them now.

 

18.09.2006, 20:17 quote

Anonymous

xxfestivalxx wrote:
saintsfan wrote:
haha, my neck doesnt bend that far down Razz


lol Laughing


It's no good, a mum has to boast whatever's it about. My 6 year old lad is not only very supple, but is built rather well!! He can bend that far!!!

 

18.09.2006, 20:28 quote

Anonymous

redoctober wrote:
xxfestivalxx wrote:
saintsfan wrote:
haha, my neck doesnt bend that far down Razz


lol Laughing


It's no good, a mum has to boast whatever's it about. My 6 year old lad is not only very supple, but is built rather well!! He can bend that far!!!


Red!

Eurrrrghhhh!

TMI!!

Pol x

 

18.09.2006, 20:31 quote

Anonymous

redoctober wrote:
saintsfan wrote:
Maybe so, but doing ALL the chasing can get rather tiresome.


Then do what i do and don't bother. Can't see the point of this 'chasing' thing on either side. Yeah, I'm shy and i feel sick when making contact, especially if you've been talking a while and it's got to the phoning stage. The way i look at it is, he's likely to be just as nervous, so someone's got to make the first move!!


Oh I know the feeling sick making contact thing!!!!

Excitement and nerves all at the same time!

Although Red, I still get that lovely feeling now! - don't tell tho! Wink

Pol x

 

18.09.2006, 20:33 quote

Anonymous

[quote="pollyanna37"]

redoctober wrote:
saintsfan wrote:
Maybe so, but doing ALL the chasing can get rather tiresome.


Then do what i do and don't bother. Can't see the point of this 'chasing' thing on either side. Yeah, I'm shy and i feel sick when making contact, especially if you've been talking a while and it's got to the phoning stage. The way i look at it is, he's likely to be just as nervous, so someone's got to make the first move!!


Oh I know the feeling sick making contact thing!!!!
Excitement and nerves all at the same time!
Although Red, I still get that lovely feeling now! - don't tell tho! Wink
Pol x[/quote

Aww, so glad it went well. You gonna fess up in the "fess up" thread yet? Wink

 

18.09.2006, 20:35 quote

Anonymous

[quote="redoctober]

Aww, so glad it went well. You gonna fess up in the "fess up" thread yet? Wink[/quote]

Erm let me just think about that ...........................................

 

18.09.2006, 20:40 quote

Anonymous

pollyanna37 wrote:
[quote="redoctober]

Aww, so glad it went well. You gonna fess up in the "fess up" thread yet? Wink


Erm let me just think about that ...........................................[/quote]

lol, well bloody hurry up, I wanna go bed

 

18.09.2006, 20:41 quote

Anonymous

redoctober wrote:
pollyanna37 wrote:
[quote="redoctober]

Aww, so glad it went well. You gonna fess up in the "fess up" thread yet? Wink


Erm let me just think about that ...........................................


lol, well bloody hurry up, I wanna go bed [/quote]

I've thought about it and it is .....

damn keyboard is playing up, hello hello can you still read me?

 

18.09.2006, 21:13 quote

Anonymous

Aye Billy Connelly said that women want to make all the rules, and you better keep on yir f$@king toes 'cause they're all gonnie change the mora!!

So you can go two ways:

1} jump though hoops that are ever moving

2} don't give a monkey's about the hoops, and if they like you, then your free to be yourself in your own skin

 

18.09.2006, 21:15 quote

Anonymous

Embarassed

 

18.09.2006, 21:18 quote

Anonymous

Aye Billy Connelly said that women want to make all the rules, and you better keep on yir f$@king toes 'cause they're all gonnie change the mora!!

So you can go two ways:

1} jump though hoops that are ever moving

2} don't give a monkey's about the hoops, and if they like you, then your free to be yourself in your own skin

 

18.09.2006, 23:47 quote

ChiefOHara
Joined: 11 Feb 2006 Posts: 2849 Location: Ireland, Cork, Cork
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You know in the good old days, the chase didn't include flowers, or looks, or jumping hoops, or hints or mutual affection. Back then the chase was just a chase. You ran after her with a club and if you caught her, you knocked her on the head and dragged her back to the cave.

Is she liked you then she wouldn't run so fast. If she didn't like you she'd simply throw herself off a cliff trying to get away from you,....... sigh.......... things were so simple back then.

 
 
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