What is it with you women that expect us guys to do all the chasing?

If given a challenge man will try to concur..

saint i think men are as bad ,,, but if you like someone message them

Maybe so, but doing ALL the chasing can get rather tiresome.

Maybe it's just me, but I have been known to have to chase one of those 'non-comittment' type of man.

well if your not getting anything back .. give up and move on there are a lot of nice females on here

Seems to be more men on these sort of sites then women, So men have to do the chasing. That's the way it seems to me.

We have to hope there's an influx of loads of women

Well you think you are making progress and then the doubts come in. And Im not a quitter.

It should be equal effort (in the ideal world)...I agree DONT chase..if they like you they will contact you. One of my female friends never EVER would call a guy first everyday she would wait for them to text/call. Even when she is in a relationship with them? 6 months. they have to make the effort first. I dont agree..

Well she said she likes me but, those little feelings u get deep down are getting me frustrated.

are you still chatting with her saint

Yea but not today though. :S

are u chatting on msn or swapped numbers to text or phone or anything like that or is it just early days

Just msn so far.