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22.11.2007, 17:59 quote

chikhai

robthebear wrote:
FB is a great site, but it seems more like a social networking site, rather than a dating site.


Quote, print and frame.

 

22.11.2007, 17:59 quote

Anonymous

robthebear wrote:
If theres one thing i dont do, is bullsh*t people. I'm completely open and up front about these things Smile



Good Man Wink

 

22.11.2007, 18:14 quote

Anonymous

robthebear wrote:
If theres one thing i dont do, is bullsh*t people. I'm completely open and up front about these things Smile


Well done that man!!

Rocket and I are only winding you up matey. Very Happy

 

22.11.2007, 20:41 quote

Cazzabee
Cazzabee Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 7246 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Fife
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Well all you decent men need to move to Scotland.........

 

22.11.2007, 22:07 quote

Anonymous

BexBex wrote:
robthebear wrote:
If theres one thing i dont do, is bullsh*t people. I'm completely open and up front about these things Smile


Well done that man!!

Rocket and I are only winding you up matey. Very Happy



Yup. I only do open and up front men.

 

24.11.2007, 09:54 quote

Anonymous

robthebear wrote:
FB is a great site, but it seems more like a social networking site, rather than a dating site.


I have heard that on another free site. But that is probably the way they have evolved by the users. Dont know if Toby had that in mind when he designed and set up the site??

 

24.11.2007, 14:58 quote

toby

I don't think Flirtbox is a social networking site as such. Social networking sites are usually full of people that are bored and just want to kill some time online and fool around (myspace etc..) - whereas on Flirtbox most people want to meet up with real people offline and do some stuff.

 

24.11.2007, 17:07 quote

Anonymous

"whereas on Flirtbox most people want to meet up with real people offline and do some stuff.[/quote]"

And yet alot of people on these forums feel its the opposite?

 

25.11.2007, 01:40 quote

Cazzabee
Cazzabee Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 7246 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Fife
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RocketGirl wrote:
And yet alot of people on these forums feel its the opposite?


To be honest, with most of the quote "regulars" unquote on the forum I would love to meet up with the majority of them on a social basis (some of them I have done so with Very Happy). But on the dating side of things there are a few people I would love to meet but I just never have the nerve to take it any further than exchanging messages. Im a little scaredy cat when it comes to dating in the big bad world....maybe thats just me though. I seem to talk a good game but cant quite pull it off Laughing Laughing

Ive heard and seen many a success story on here so I know that it definately works for you if you find the right person. Probably about the same odds as the big bad real world


I dont honestly think anybody can quantify what is the better type of site without knowing the figures of actual success stories...

And im drunk so i will read this over in the morning and see if it makes sense (Jeg i will never learn not to post when drunk Laughing Laughing Laughing )

 

25.11.2007, 12:24 quote

Anonymous

I think you are right - no one can quantify 'what works where' - after all, anything works as long as works, regardless where, eh?
I have a friend who swears that THE only place to meet a woman is in the supermarket - simply cuz that's where he met all 3 of his wives!
(and he ridicules dating websites tho he's never used one.....)

 

25.11.2007, 14:00 quote

Anonymous

Cazzabee wrote:
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To be honest, with most of the quote "regulars" unquote on the forum I would love to meet up with the majority of them on a social basis (some of them I have done so with Very Happy). But on the dating side of things there are a few people I would love to meet but I just never have the nerve to take it any further than exchanging messages. Im a little scaredy cat when it comes to dating in the big bad world....maybe thats just me though. I seem to talk a good game but cant quite pull it off Laughing Laughing



I am beginning to feel the same way - I've so far met two people off here. Now I dont think I am so socially inept that I don't 'read' cues. We had a real nice time, got on well, and both times it was the other person who was first to say "I've enjoyed today, lets do it again soon"....and yet from the moment of parting company, I've not heard another word although I know they still frequent this website, and received my messages.

Of course it is their perogative to go away, think about it and decide they dont want to bother with me anymore, but it would have been nice if they'd bothered to text or email "sorry but I'm actually a very good actor and in actual fact you bored me witless and I never want anymore contact with you ever again" - heck, I can handle rejection and it would stop me worrying whether me sending more than one message "Are you ok? Why haven't you contacted me?" constitutes stalking the poor man!

When I joined this website I was a fairly confident, eager to meet people kind of woman.
Now there's a huge dent in my self-confidence and I am scared witless to ever meet anyone off here again.
I think from now on it's safer for me to just stick to posting on the forums!

 

26.11.2007, 01:02 quote

chikhai

At least you got as far as meeting them. Which is more than can be said for most.

Fair play to you. You had the bottle to go beyond the monitor. On Flirtbook thats relatively rare.

 

26.11.2007, 08:28 quote

Anonymous

chikhai wrote:
At least you got as far as meeting them. Which is more than can be said for most.

Fair play to you. You had the bottle to go beyond the monitor. On Flirtbook thats relatively rare.


How can you be so sure Chikhai? We're only a very small percentage of flirtbox users in the forums.

I met someone from here (one date) not long after I first joined and i think several others have too. Infact, of the regulars, I think most have met someone at least once.

 

26.11.2007, 09:32 quote

Anonymous

RocketGirl wrote:
Of course it is their perogative to go away, think about it and decide they dont want to bother with me anymore, but it would have been nice if they'd bothered to text or email


Of course, in an ideal situation they would get in touch with you, but sadly not everyone is so courteous. Sometimes I think a lot of people have different rules for online dating compared to dating someone you've met offline.

RocketGirl wrote:

Now there's a huge dent in my self-confidence and I am scared witless to ever meet anyone off here again.
I think from now on it's safer for me to just stick to posting on the forums!


Ahh, please don't let this knock your confidence. I've met quite a few people from here and although they weren't all particularly successful, I always learned something from the experience. If they don't want to see you again, or can't even be bothered to send you an e-mail, then you're probably better off without them.

 

10.12.2007, 00:11 quote

samatron
samatron Joined: 24 May 2007 Posts: 219 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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I think of the site as being a social networking site based on dating.
Don't know why people are saying it's one or the other.
As for the notion going that you don't meet up with people on social networking sites, that doesn't follow!
I've met dozens of people through facebook and gumtree!
The event functionality on facebook is specifically for meeting up with people!
I haven't met anyone off this site yet!
I still come here though as these forums can be hilarious some times!

Quote:
When I joined this website I was a fairly confident, eager to meet people kind of woman.
Now there's a huge dent in my self-confidence and I am scared witless to ever meet anyone off here again.

Blimey! Give that woman a hug... boohoo
I wouldn't worry about those guys you met RG.
Two people liking each other is such a random thing, you can't expect someone else to be into you, when you are into them. Get back into meeting people, but don't have expectations. If you come across as needy or as having expectations, you'll send 'em running! Just concentrate on having fun!

 
 
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