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Home >> Dating >> Still confused!
15.03.2007, 06:31 quote
| Twobitactor wrote: | ||
No, its like i saw her online on a dating site that we met on. But instead of messaging on there, said i sent her a text. But it seemed strange that she would still be checking her messages if she has started to date me! But theni guess i wouldnt have been on there either! Oh i dont know  |
Just cos she's checking messages, doesn't mean they're potential boyfriend material. You still come in here!! It doesn't necessarily mean anything. I still get messages, and I check them sometimes when my fellah is here, as do he his.
We've both made friends on dating sites, so no reason to not check messages
Be yourself, do what feels right for you. If she's not comfortable with you being yourself... move on!!!
15.03.2007, 16:27 quote
| anothermansjulie wrote: | ||||
Just cos she's checking messages, doesn't mean they're potential boyfriend material. You still come in here!! It doesn't necessarily mean anything. I still get messages, and I check them sometimes when my fellah is here, as do he his. We've both made friends on dating sites, so no reason to not check messages
Be yourself, do what feels right for you. If she's not comfortable with you being yourself... move on!!! |
Of course, thanks you!
15.03.2007, 22:25 quote
or she could have been justifying to you why she was one there.
IE she said she was chcking message NOT sending them!
I have done that before - a guy I was seeing saw me online and I fell over myself to explain that I was just checking my messages and letting them down gently 
15.03.2007, 23:17 quote
the best strategy might be 'wait and see'. wait for a while without texting or messaging. after that time if you get a message then go on. if she meesages it means she cares.
16.03.2007, 08:08 quote
| MRious wrote: |
| the best strategy might be 'wait and see'. wait for a while without texting or messaging. after that time if you get a message then go on. if she meesages it means she cares. |
The only problem with that is if she's leaving it to him to show interest initially!!
Took me weeks to realise my fellah was genuinely interested... just cr*p with the texting
I just decided that the best thing to do was be me and continue texting when I felt I had something to say.... for example.... 'oi you miserable b*st*rd, I'm not playing this stupid game!!'*
*NB whilst there is a great degree of truth in that, I did know him well enough by then
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