OK this is an old chessnut but worth updating.
Having been away from the scene for health reasons! I find not only have i put on weight but lost a bit of hair and added a few extra grey ones I find i don't really feel confident about chatting to someone then perhaps persuing it with asking for a date! Reading some of the threads on the forum has left me feeling a bit cold as to peoples expectations of others and in what they are seeking.

I try hard to be myself and i do maintain a code of strict honesty.

Any suggestions will be gratefully recieved

You have to have confidence in yourself. At the end of the day..nobody is perfect.

I agree with Laura! and also u can only be urself so make the most of what uv got not every1's looking for the same thing gd luck!