My profile setting was setup wrong, I chose not to be contacted by anyone... Interesting choice on a selection I must say.
Who would want that? Not me.
Thanks for reading.
jer

Thank god I read your post. I thought I would check my settings and found I could only be contacted by males for some reason.

Yep, it pays to check one's profile. Someone off here sent me a lovely PM but after spending several minutes constucting a lovely reply, it said This person has chosen not to be contacted by people without a photo. Ho hum.
Not that anyone actually bothers to read your profile before contacting you of course. Last night someone had sent me a PM. Now, my profile says "only contact me from the forums" so I was interested which one of my friends here had summat private to say....the website wasnt loading but I was determined.......it was gone 3 am by the time the page loaded up - t'was a PM from a total stranger never seen on the forums and it just said, "Hiiii". Hhhhmmm, I went to bed very grumpy!
Rant over, sorry!

....Or, in a relationship but are "here for the forums", but dont need private PMs from friends off here either cuz they've all got their email and phone numbers?