Well, I usually have these arguments with a friend of mine at clubs etc, and thought I'd ask everyone on here!

My friend, he's average when it comes to intelligence/sophistication/fashion sense etc, except he has a very built body, and loves sports to bits (Rugby player).

Whereas for me, (without sounding vain) I consider myself highly when it comes to intelligence/sophisication/fashion sense etc, whereas I am skinny, thin hands, thin arms etc, and loves things such as the piano, music, composing, researching etc.

For both of us, we really love to club and dance, find women (neither of us have a problem with this though) and have a brilliant time.

But we've talked about this to women many times before, what do you prefer? I know some women will say both, but I understand women would rather have a man with a fuller body and such rather then scrawny, Brawns over Brains what not. Especially in the casual sex scene.

What do you girls think? And seeing as I'm new here, anyone fancy a private chat? . x

Well..with me..I'm either attracted to somebody or i'm not.

I can be attracted to any bloke of any build.

*shrugs*

You could always hit the gym and build yourself up into something hunkier, then you'd have the best of both worlds. I think it's all relative... intelligent women will be drawn to more intelligent men, etc, surely. I would say people probably usually end up with someone around the same intelligence level as themselves, it's just natural selection.. if a bloke is brawny then so much the better, after all the man is meant to be the protector and women like a man they feel safe with.

Fortunately I am both brawny and super-intelligent bwaahahahahahaha.

i like intelligent guys, what i mean i guess is if they are capable of conversation and dont grunt all the time then thats fine, personally i dont really go for skinny guys i like to feel safe and for me a skinny guy doesnt make me feel that way. i like a man to be a man and skinny doesnt fit in with that attraction for me i dont overly mind what a guy looks like apart from the fact that he isnt skinny

everyone has their own personal oppinions and attractions im sure you will fine the one for you x
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Oh man. If only body type and personality really could be determined by one sweeping generalisation...

well......

my ex (first ever boyfriend) was very slim, and rather scrawny

the guy im dating at the moment has big muscles and isnt scrawny....

i was in love with my ex, i dont no if i could be in love with this new guy

so to be honest it doesnt matter about build or anything!

its the attraction, somone could be beautiful looking but be a nasty person, or someone could be unfortunate looking and a very beautiful person inside.

you just never no. so there is no answer to any of these questions, just dont change for anyone, you are yourself and someone will love you for this.

end of x

This is another pointless thread.

It runs on the same lines as "Fat -vs- Thin", "Curvy -vs- Skinny" etc etc etc.

Muscly people can be intellingent and skinny people can be thick.

Visa Versa

As Chikadoodledoo the lollipop lady pointed out, you cant generalise these things.

I dont go for skinny, but with the right level of intelligence, humour, voice, and lots of other things factored into it, then i just might change my mind.

Attraction is a very broad broad thing.