So we all sit down to pen a reply!!!!! to a profile witty flirty what eva!!!! the days go by and no reply! so what are we doing wrong?

Girls what makes you want to reply to a message?????

I guess everyone is different but I tend to reply to thos that contain more than 'hi, wanna chat' it takes more than that to inspire me, usually a compliment, wit or something in common that indicates and real interest in me as a person.

Tell me tho, what is it that makes a guy want to send a message, I know most of the guys who message me get as far as my pic, what would a girl have to say to grab a guys attention (apart from the obvious)

Witty the profiles on this site dont give away much but look at the eyes if poss!! and avoid the ones who say they hate rude people LOL

I always reply to messages! But have just recantly found that once i have replyed i hear no more!!!

I agree with exmouthlady. But messages like one I just got (Want to get Norty?) just get deleted. Make me smile though, and you get a reply.

You shouldnt expect everyone to reply, not everyone is active all the time, and there also maybe other reasons. I usually reply to most messages i get if they ask me a question. If i like the look of someones profile i will ask a question back, and probally mention something about there profile.

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Girls what makes you want to reply to a message?????[/quote] well eccles,,,i guess if u are just yourself and dont have hidden agenda,s,then i,m sure you will get reply,s from a female who does the same, it,s just a waiting game ,,but if you really want to get to know people ,then why dont you look at the profiles of females you like and just send them a quick" hello how are you " you never get if you dont ask ,,,as te saying goes ,,good luck ,,carole

The only agenda i have is happiness! and the chance to make someone happy too I really think it's time to give up
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

great agenda eccles,,, wish i could meet a guy with the same one as you ,,,,

lol, there is a certain amount of irony with so many epople saying on thier profile they are looking for new people to chat to

theres a few of us about sweetex - we just don't get replies!

Really? No replies at all?

Good guys never win they fade away slowly!!!! except when they goof with their in boxes and i aint sayin any more!!!!!!!!
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

enigmav3 and eccles,,, i think you 2 are at it ,, are you both just wanting the sympathy vote from us females ,,,,lol

I want sympathy too!....