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16.04.2007, 21:42 quote

lindseyb83
lindseyb83 Joined: 15 Apr 2007 Posts: 3 Location: United Kingdom, England, East Yorkshire
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Hey everyone, a newbie here!

I'm 24/f and new to these dating sites. I'm just wondering and, be honest here, does size affect you getting interest on this site or others?

Because I'm a size 14/16, weighing 12 stone, and I'm worried this might be a problem. Blokes, is this something that would bother you? Girls, has this held you back at all? Be honest, I want to know before I go into this blind.

Any advice appreiciated
Linds x x x x

 

16.04.2007, 21:44 quote

Anonymous

no i dont think size is affecting, and your only 14/16 thats average, so dont sweat it

 

16.04.2007, 21:47 quote

irishlgirl74
irishlgirl74 Joined: 15 Jan 2007 Posts: 1444 Location: United Kingdom, Northern Ireland, Down
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lindseyb83 wrote:
Hey everyone, a newbie here!

I'm 24/f and new to these dating sites. I'm just wondering and, be honest here, does size affect you getting interest on this site or others?

Because I'm a size 14/16, weighing 12 stone, and I'm worried this might be a problem. Blokes, is this something that would bother you? Girls, has this held you back at all? Be honest, I want to know before I go into this blind.

Any advice appreiciated
Linds x x x x


All guys and girls, like different things, some guys like size 8 and some like 18, every1 is different, and i would think ur size 14/16 would be about average, ps welcome 2 the forum,

 

16.04.2007, 21:53 quote

miditheblue
Joined: 18 May 2006 Posts: 117 Location: United Kingdom, Wales, Clwyd
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Being a size 14/16 shouldn't be a problem at all. The fact that you've asked about it brings me to guessing it's an insecurity which could be more of a problem I think.

 

16.04.2007, 21:59 quote

Cazzabee
Cazzabee Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Posts: 7257 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Fife
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lindseyb83 wrote:
Hey everyone, a newbie here!

I'm 24/f and new to these dating sites. I'm just wondering and, be honest here, does size affect you getting interest on this site or others?

Because I'm a size 14/16, weighing 12 stone, and I'm worried this might be a problem. Blokes, is this something that would bother you? Girls, has this held you back at all? Be honest, I want to know before I go into this blind.

Any advice appreiciated
Linds x x x x


If it does put someone off dating me the fact that I aint a skinny girl then that isnt someone I want to date anyway so as vi says dont sweat it.

There are people who like all shapes and sizes out there and someone for everyone. Just sometimes takes a little time to find them

 

16.04.2007, 22:03 quote

lindseyb83
lindseyb83 Joined: 15 Apr 2007 Posts: 3 Location: United Kingdom, England, East Yorkshire
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miditheblue wrote:
The fact that you've asked about it brings me to guessing it's an insecurity which could be more of a problem I think.


I wouldn't say I'm insecure about it, in fact I'm quite satisfied with my shape, and I'm happy with my curves. It's just that say, in a crowded bar, men don't approach the curvier ladies do they? That's why I'm enquiring about how it is on here...

 

16.04.2007, 22:04 quote

elitious
Joined: 06 Apr 2007 Posts: 1264 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Glasgow
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OH my GOD! ur a girl and ur worried about that, it guys how have to struggle and struggle and then struggle some more to get some one nice ...i think ur shine Razz

 

16.04.2007, 22:27 quote

miditheblue
Joined: 18 May 2006 Posts: 117 Location: United Kingdom, Wales, Clwyd
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lindseyb83 wrote:
miditheblue wrote:
The fact that you've asked about it brings me to guessing it's an insecurity which could be more of a problem I think.


I wouldn't say I'm insecure about it, in fact I'm quite satisfied with my shape, and I'm happy with my curves. It's just that say, in a crowded bar, men don't approach the curvier ladies do they? That's why I'm enquiring about how it is on here...


For me personally I prefer a curvier lady to a certain extent. To me a size 14/16 is just a healthy size.

 

16.04.2007, 22:40 quote

Anonymous

hey 14/16 is not big sweetie!You are about average! i'm 18-20 and most guys i have had msg me like bigger curvier women. If you are wearing a smile honey, then how you look to a guy will not be important. its personality and charisma that makes a person, and if they are more interested in your dress size, they really aint worth bothering with. bodies are just the wrapper of the soul. Good luck honey and i hope you find a nice guy who sees you for who you are.

 

16.04.2007, 22:44 quote

Anonymous

clevercookie wrote:
hey 14/16 is not big sweetie!You are about average! i'm 18-20 and most guys i have had msg me like bigger curvier women. If you are wearing a smile honey, then how you look to a guy will not be important. its personality and charisma that makes a person, and if they are more interested in your dress size, they really aint worth bothering with. bodies are just the wrapper of the soul. Good luck honey and i hope you find a nice guy who sees you for who you are.
i like that, might have to swipe it

 

16.04.2007, 23:25 quote

miditheblue
Joined: 18 May 2006 Posts: 117 Location: United Kingdom, Wales, Clwyd
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You thief you. Razz

 

17.04.2007, 09:43 quote

is26
is26 Joined: 14 Apr 2007 Posts: 102 Location: United Kingdom, England, Staffordshire
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we have a thief amounst us...lol

 

17.04.2007, 09:57 quote

Anonymous

lindseyb83 wrote:
Hey everyone, a newbie here!

I'm 24/f and new to these dating sites. I'm just wondering and, be honest here, does size affect you getting interest on this site or others?

Yes

 

17.04.2007, 11:04 quote

irishlgirl74
irishlgirl74 Joined: 15 Jan 2007 Posts: 1444 Location: United Kingdom, Northern Ireland, Down
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Tabletop wrote:
lindseyb83 wrote:
Hey everyone, a newbie here!

I'm 24/f and new to these dating sites. I'm just wondering and, be honest here, does size affect you getting interest on this site or others?

Yes


But there is some1 out there for ever1, Smile

 

17.04.2007, 11:13 quote

Anonymous

Yey..... and whats for you, wont go by you Very Happy

 
 
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