Heya everyone i am new to this whole thing!!

Just wanting mens opinions on dating and talking to women with kiddies thats single!

I am currently single , 24 nearly and have 2 kids under the age of 4.. i am not working as i dont have family in nottingham that could look after my children.

Does such big ties put men off??

Can't really answer for the men, but i will say, if you are a single parent with children you get 70 % off your childcare paid for, which enables alot of women back into work.

Hey. I often see very cute girls with young kids. The thing is this. the default position in ones minf=d is that they must be taken and it would be innapropriate to chat them up. nevertheless you can't help wondering if they are single as many ladies are these days. Personally i see no issues with it really. If she's georgeous with a kid, i still appreciate the beauty, but would probably not chat here up if i did not know her situation... Bottom line is, your no less gorgeous because you have kid/s. If the girl was right it would not stop me. But having said that i never had a girlfriend with kids, so i am not sure what that says..My feeling is that some guys will be put off, but perhaps that is their great loss....

bye !

cant remember the last time i had a girlfriend who didn't have a sprog, ...i meant kids

So no it doesnt put me off lol

There is a whole section dedicated to this & various related topics....here:

http://www.flirtbox.net/single_parents.html

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