Theres nothing to do, right or wrong really .. go out with your mates ( not looking for a date) have a laugh be yourself ..., and then it will happen

Good Luck

When you feel you are too old to go clubbing to meet people, then I guess the people you want to meet are going to have the same idea. So instead of club, go to the pub and simularly minded people will be there.


And who says 30 is too old to go to a nightclub? So long as I remember to change out of my cardigan and slippers and put incontinance pants on then I cant see a problem with being soooo old and go clubbing
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I've loved, I've laughed and cried, I've had my fill; my share of losing.
And now, as tears subside, I find it all so amusing.

Hey am 30 and i still enjoi the clubbing scene! TBH it isnt where i would personally look for love as its mostly full of ppl drunk n silly n at the most after sum fun!!

be patient! dont rush, dont put pressure on it, dont stress!

and it will come to you when you least expect it.

have faith.

Unfortunately at the end of the day however patient you are some people are destined to be single,thats what ive found,you can be the most sincere and loving person and still never have any luck. People say it will happen when you least expect it,but it doesn't always work out that way! Plus if you dont like going to pubs then that narrows your chances even more

I went on my first date in 4 years not long ago. I ended up having a drink to calm my nerves and slightly over did it to say the least...Anyway I recommend not doing that. Rolling up to a date half cut was never going to be a very clever idea. Makes me laugh now to think about it!

I just have a few JDs and coke and im off

Usually i never remember what i said anyway :/

I just go with the flow, and let the conversation meander. I'm still fairly shy but am fairly relaxed and provided the other person is an easy conversationalist, getting through a first date isn't too much of a problem with me... it's if there's a 2nd one I panic!!