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18.04.2008, 23:29 quote

mimsical

shiftygeezer wrote:
s6boystu wrote:
i hope not, because how can you tell if mr right is mr right, without giving him a trial run ?


thats what ive been saying, ...1st prize to Stu Very Happy


Im passing no comment at all, the people that matter know my views and the rest of you wellll.....

 

18.04.2008, 23:35 quote

Bliss23
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shiftygeezer wrote:
.it dont really take a lot to come to that conclusion does it, ...


Right... Conclusions... Again I won't bother to comment on that... As long as I haven't said it, feel free to judge away and come to any conclusions you please. Razz

As for the Mr. Fecking Right...

Animal cwap? I'm hurtttttttt. Twisted Evil

I'm not waiting for anyone. I am not part of a couple... I'm not happy with being single, nor am I sad. I do give trial runs... Enough said. As for Mr. Rights... I'm not searchin' for them, but I know they're out there because I've met some of them. So if I happen to find another one along the way... Then I just might take a turn off my single path. And no, I don't think there's just ONE Mr. Right. It's actually scarry to think how many Mr. Rights are out there. Unfortunately though sometimes the Mr. Rights are just mirages, as I've said. So that's why I asked the peeps who declared to be single by choice what would they do if another mr/ms right would show up. If they'd stick to the path of being single, or throw it all away for yet another "right" experience which could end "wrong". Anyways... Enough.

Oh and one last thing... I don't believe Mr. Right = forever and ever. I actually went after Duncan McLeod once, but when I wanted to cut his wrists to see if he'd come back to life to love me some more he dumped me. Evil or Very Mad

Goodnite and good luck.
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18.04.2008, 23:38 quote

annmarie5988

Bliss23 wrote:
shiftygeezer wrote:
.it dont really take a lot to come to that conclusion does it, ...


Right... Conclusions... Again I won't bother to comment on that... As long as I haven't said it, feel free to judge away and come to any conclusions you please. Razz

As for the Mr. Fecking Right...

Animal cwap? I'm hurtttttttt. Twisted Evil

I'm not waiting for anyone. I am not part of a couple... I'm not happy with being single, nor am I sad. I do give trial runs... Enough said. As for Mr. Rights... I'm not searchin' for them, but I know they're out there because I've met some of them. So if I happen to find another one along the way... Then I just might take a turn off my single path. And no, I don't think there's just ONE Mr. Right. It's actually scarry to think how many Mr. Rights are out there. Unfortunately though sometimes the Mr. Rights are just mirages, as I've said. So that's why I asked the peeps who declared to be single by choice what would they do if another mr/ms right would show up. If they'd stick to the path of being single, or throw it all away for yet another "right" experience which could end "wrong". Anyways... Enough.

Oh and one last thing... I don't believe Mr. Right = forever and ever. I actually went after Duncan McLeod once, but when I wanted to cut his wrists to see if he'd come back to life to love me some more he dumped me. Evil or Very Mad

Goodnite and good luck.


totally agree with that .......... x

 

18.04.2008, 23:45 quote

shiftygeezer

annmarie5988 wrote:
Bliss23 wrote:
shiftygeezer wrote:
.it dont really take a lot to come to that conclusion does it, ...


Right... Conclusions... Again I won't bother to comment on that... As long as I haven't said it, feel free to judge away and come to any conclusions you please. Razz

As for the Mr. Fecking Right...

Animal cwap? I'm hurtttttttt. Twisted Evil

I'm not waiting for anyone. I am not part of a couple... I'm not happy with being single, nor am I sad. I do give trial runs... Enough said. As for Mr. Rights... I'm not searchin' for them, but I know they're out there because I've met some of them. So if I happen to find another one along the way... Then I just might take a turn off my single path. And no, I don't think there's just ONE Mr. Right. It's actually scarry to think how many Mr. Rights are out there. Unfortunately though sometimes the Mr. Rights are just mirages, as I've said. So that's why I asked the peeps who declared to be single by choice what would they do if another mr/ms right would show up. If they'd stick to the path of being single, or throw it all away for yet another "right" experience which could end "wrong". Anyways... Enough.

Oh and one last thing... I don't believe Mr. Right = forever and ever. I actually went after Duncan McLeod once, but when I wanted to cut his wrists to see if he'd come back to life to love me some more he dumped me. Evil or Very Mad

Goodnite and good luck.


totally agree with that .......... x


am i in the fucking Twilight Zone or what? lmfao

 

20.04.2008, 17:31 quote

lisabeee
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I know im a bit late in my answer but ... well, thats just me

I have been single for six years, three of which were definately though choice, i chose a time to stop looking and to start concentrating, particularly on my son, i wanted him to have some serious stability after his father left and some continuity; the only way i saw i could do this was to remain single until such a time when he was ready to have another man in his life.... it was a very serious choice but one which paid off ... anyway to lighten this ... he was ready three years ago and me, well, im just catching up now and hoping someone will still find me attractive enough to take a chance on before the serious wrinkles set in and i start thinking about taking in stray cats and buying a rocking chair hehhee:wink:
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20.04.2008, 21:09 quote

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It's my choice to be single......but it is my second choice..... Laughing
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20.04.2008, 23:50 quote

lilacrose

lisabeee wrote:
I know im a bit late in my answer but ... well, thats just me

I have been single for six years, three of which were definately though choice, i chose a time to stop looking and to start concentrating, particularly on my son, i wanted him to have some serious stability after his father left and some continuity; the only way i saw i could do this was to remain single until such a time when he was ready to have another man in his life.... it was a very serious choice but one which paid off ... anyway to lighten this ... he was ready three years ago and me, well, im just catching up now and hoping someone will still find me attractive enough to take a chance on before the serious wrinkles set in and i start thinking about taking in stray cats and buying a rocking chair hehhee:wink:


Oh bloody hell.....I have wrinkles, 3 stray cats and a rocking chair....I'll just leave now, shall I? Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing

 

21.04.2008, 16:19 quote

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lilacrose wrote:
Oh bloody hell.....I have wrinkles, 3 stray cats and a rocking chair....I'll just leave now, shall I? Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing


No, youre safe, i said SERIOUS wrinkles .... and i cant see any on you lol Wink
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22.04.2008, 15:39 quote

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i aM NOW SINGLE BY CHOICE THROUGH MY HUSBANDS INFIDELITY, FIRST TIME EVER ON MY OWN BUT I WILL GET THERE Very Happy

 

22.04.2008, 16:09 quote

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cushtyjivin wrote:
i aM NOW SINGLE BY CHOICE THROUGH MY HUSBANDS INFIDELITY, FIRST TIME EVER ON MY OWN BUT I WILL GET THERE Very Happy
I found myself in the same boat at 33 ... had never been on my own ... hated it at first but soon grew to love it ... i never realised just how independent i was ... hang in there ;o)
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22.04.2008, 17:19 quote

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thanks lisa for the vote of confidence mine happened just recently but im worth more than he could ever hope to have,
and thankfully i have alot of support Very Happy [/quote]

 

07.05.2008, 12:48 quote

monochromekat

I've been single through choice for the past 2 and a half years, and yes that meant celibate and turning people down. I needed that time alone and was so much happier for it. Now though I'm not sure, loneliness has started creeping in and I'm so out of practise flirting I thought I'd join a dating site. Now it's less about choosing to be single, and more about being happy whatever happens. If I remain single, then fine, I look forward to filling a house with cats and being a slightly eccentric spinster. Laughing

 

07.05.2008, 16:18 quote

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Hellew, Monochromekat, stay a while. Very Happy
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07.05.2008, 16:45 quote

monochromekat

I hope to, it seems fairly relaxed in here Smile

 

07.05.2008, 22:55 quote

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monochromekat wrote:
I've been single through choice for the past 2 and a half years, and yes that meant celibate and turning people down. I needed that time alone and was so much happier for it. Now though I'm not sure, loneliness has started creeping in and I'm so out of practise flirting I thought I'd join a dating site. Now it's less about choosing to be single, and more about being happy whatever happens. If I remain single, then fine, I look forward to filling a house with cats and being a slightly eccentric spinster. Laughing


Sounds similar to me! The internet is good in some ways because you can flirt a bit but to be honest it don't work as well as real life. You never know you might get lucky and find the bloke of your dreams! I think ultimately for me I wont be happy until I haves someone to be with...
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