I know im a bit late in my answer but ... well, thats just me

I have been single for six years, three of which were definately though choice, i chose a time to stop looking and to start concentrating, particularly on my son, i wanted him to have some serious stability after his father left and some continuity; the only way i saw i could do this was to remain single until such a time when he was ready to have another man in his life.... it was a very serious choice but one which paid off ... anyway to lighten this ... he was ready three years ago and me, well, im just catching up now and hoping someone will still find me attractive enough to take a chance on before the serious wrinkles set in and i start thinking about taking in stray cats and buying a rocking chair hehhee:wink:
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It's my choice to be single......but it is my second choice.....
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i aM NOW SINGLE BY CHOICE THROUGH MY HUSBANDS INFIDELITY, FIRST TIME EVER ON MY OWN BUT I WILL GET THERE

thanks lisa for the vote of confidence mine happened just recently but im worth more than he could ever hope to have,
and thankfully i have alot of support [/quote]

I've been single through choice for the past 2 and a half years, and yes that meant celibate and turning people down. I needed that time alone and was so much happier for it. Now though I'm not sure, loneliness has started creeping in and I'm so out of practise flirting I thought I'd join a dating site. Now it's less about choosing to be single, and more about being happy whatever happens. If I remain single, then fine, I look forward to filling a house with cats and being a slightly eccentric spinster.

Hellew, Monochromekat, stay a while.

I hope to, it seems fairly relaxed in here