hey all im a single mum, a bbw and i think im quite sexy, how ever i think being a single mum scares men off.. i dnt no why when i find a guy they always want me to go out, but i cant always do that, whats wrong with a dvd, food and staying in at mine? i mean whats so good about goign to get pissed?? u can even do that at home, i dnt understand it, am i boreing or what, i no men dnt want to stay in 24/7 but im not asking that, i can go out 2-3times a month, but being able to see someone other than in a club is so much better, makes u feel less used!!
Any other single mums feel the same??

idk its prolly cos guys (myself included) are still kids ourselves and regardless how perfect the woman is there will undoubtedly be a losing competition for attention in favour of their child (justly so)

but thers nothing wrong with drinks pizza and movie i do that with mates all the time cos i cant dance and when i go out i just embarass myself

I think alot of guys don't take the time to at the very least do things their partners want..its all about give & take. i myself would quite happily cook a meak for my other half & chill out with some wine & a movie ...

Just my thoughts ..

j x

Part of it is an age thing. When I was that age, I liked to be out all the time, and I'd not have gone for someone with a kid. Maybe I'd have done things differently if I'd met someone I connected with well enough, but I dunno, it's too hard to say now.

Anyway, look at it like this, if they don't want to make the adjustments needed to be with you, then they're not right for you. Don't worry about it and just get on with your life and be happy, until someone who does comes along

aw thanx guys, iv been single a yr and half few more yrs wont hurt, im goign away for a while so ill be back as soon as im im home.. anyways talk soon xx

I'm Not a single mum yet... Not for another 2 and a half months. But I totally agree with you. To be honest, I don't see the appeal in going out drinking and whatever anyways. I prefer to stay in, watch a film, get a take-away... stuff like that. Plus... it's a lot easier getting to know someone that way, it's also a more comfortable environment... xx

yea thats ture, i dnt understand why guys like to go out get drunk all the time, its much cheaper to stay in, only reason i can possibley think y they want to is coz of all the tarts and slappers that are really easy especaily after drinking!!

lol well iv lived in dorest like bournemouth for 3yrs, but iv also lived in oxfordshire, biuckinghamshire, and in my experince everywhere has slags!! lol
iv been called one a few times, coz i do webcam chat and that on a website, but its not like im sleeping around!!

Hi,
Im a twenty yr old single mum and agree it is hard to find a bf. But older men are more settled and dont go out as much id rather go out with someone older. I also only go out 2 to 3 times a month and couldnt afford anymore, but my little boy goes bed at 7 so i have my evenings three.
If anyone want to chat send me a msg.xxxxxxxxxxxx