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09.01.2010, 12:17 quote
| brucec wrote: | ||
Decline politely but firmly. Explain you're worried they'll lose their respect for you. |
Have refused sometimes, and probably nothing to do with respect, more like bad breathe etc
09.01.2010, 12:27 quote
| brucec wrote: | ||
Decline politely but firmly. Explain you're worried they'll lose their respect for you. |
Not sure i know many men that would refuse love if it was offered on a plate ........
09.01.2010, 14:30 quote
Well you have to reach the first date to even consider love in the first place! 
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09.01.2010, 18:35 quote
| annmarie5988 wrote: | ||
Not sure i know many men that would refuse love if it was offered on a plate ........ |
I certainly wouldn't - I've never tried it on a plate before
She would have to have a plate big enough though, as I don't.
Seriously - you're probably right. But why is it different for girls? If I offered that advice to a girl it would seem perfectly sane and reasonable. Offered to a bloke it seems almost ludicrous.
09.01.2010, 19:15 quote
| brucec wrote: | ||||
I certainly wouldn't - I've never tried it on a plate before She would have to have a plate big enough though, as I don't. Seriously - you're probably right. But why is it different for girls? If I offered that advice to a girl it would seem perfectly sane and reasonable. Offered to a bloke it seems almost ludicrous. |
Not at all........ i agree alot of women would not turn it down either ...... except a woman is more likely to feel quilty in the morning
09.01.2010, 20:38 quote
| annmarie5988 wrote: | ||||||
Not at all........ i agree alot of women would not turn it down either ...... except a woman is more likely to feel quilty in the morning |
Sorry if it sounded like I was having a go. not my intention, I'm just curious why different standards seem to apply.
Sexual guilt is about as useful as a silk vibrator
09.01.2010, 21:33 quote
love on the first date is the same as any other date, it could be good, bad, amazin, painful, etc etc.. nothin to do with bein a hoe, slag, gigolo, etc etc.. just use protection and be confident dammit
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09.01.2010, 21:38 quote
| brucec wrote: | ||||||||
Sorry if it sounded like I was having a go. not my intention, I'm just curious why different standards seem to apply. Sexual guilt is about as useful as a silk vibrator |
Didn't think you were having a go at all ......... i totally agree with you about double standards you.... women should be able to do exactly what a guy can do ....... i dont any difference at all.
09.01.2010, 22:57 quote
| annmarie5988 wrote: | ||||||||||
Didn't think you were having a go at all ......... i totally agree with you about double standards you.... women should be able to do exactly what a guy can do ....... i dont any difference at all. |
They probably do, but most say they dont.
There's nothing wrong with them doing it as vast majority of men and women would if they met the right person...in my opinion.
13.01.2010, 00:17 quote
Depends on the person... if both of you are for it, then why not? If one isn't then its a definite no no.
13.01.2010, 15:14 quote
I feel the same way, sometimes there is alot of attraction and why put it off, waiting game what ever you wanna call it.. i to am very selfish this way, i want to know that this guy is great in bed i beleive its very important, why not get that part out of the way before you get to emotinally attached.. in the end , if it doesnt work out, all youv lost is an aquiantance and hopefully had a good time.. whats wrong with that
of course being careful and not having someone different everynite but i think that goes without being said...
i personally met a guy where we thought a relationship would develop, we had love on the first date and ralized that we werent "meant" for eachother but had incredible sexual attraction, so FWB we were and are still very happy with that kind of relationship!!
13.01.2010, 19:29 quote
there aint nothing wrong with love on a first date .. but then im a hound lol .. i have had blokes ive been in relationships with say that it did give them concerns about loyalty at the start but i always say that they shagged me to on the first date to so we are all equal lol .. personally i think its more related to blokes issues with strong willed women .. if u want it .. go for it! .. if it doesnt work out it never was ment to at the end of the day lol
17.01.2010, 16:38 quote
There's a similar topic about this already, but my believe is we as a human race has 'grown-up' now. Once upon a time, it might has been frowned upon, but I don't think it matters anymore.
I have nothing wrong with it, so it would be down to my partner to decide. Besides, if both people get along well and think they've a good chance of a strong future together, then what's the problem?
Unless my partner wants to wait for it to be extra special, I don't see the harm in it. Especially if we've both been single for ages, y'know?
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