So whats your opinion on love on a first date?
Is it wrong? or good? Would you think less of the person if they put out? Could you have a relationship with them? and more to the point have you done it yourself?

Honest answers please!!!!

I think it depends really.
I certainly think that when love becomes involved early it can be harder and take longer to get to know a person, but if they're all kinds of crazy that's not a bad thing.
As a rule I try to get girls into bed somewhere between "hello" and "how are you?" I need to hide that crazy.
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I got in touch with my feminine side. She emailed me back saying if I ever contacted her again she'd call the police.

Ive always thought that if a girl gave it up to quick the man wouldnt respect her and therefore would only see her as a piece of meat only good enough for one thing. People say oh well we clicked and just got swept away with it but surely if you click wouldnt that make you want to wait a little while before going head first? Surely its not that hard to keep your hands off someone regardless of how attracted you were to them?

But thats just my old fashioned opinion! Maybe some men will tell us different?

The respect thing is a hard one, I can't say it's not an issue with all men, but it's certainly not one with me, and you'll find there are others like me.
There are also different ways that you can click with a person. Maybe you think that they aren't going to be the person you'll marry, but they could be the person that's right at the moment.

Of course, without respect for each other nothing will ever work past a one night stand.
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I got in touch with my feminine side. She emailed me back saying if I ever contacted her again she'd call the police.

It depends how much you click. If you can't keep your hands off each other on a first date, why delay the inevitable? It would have to be a mutual decision though.

Lack of respect is a myth. If it was the intention of one to go for a one night stand only, they won't come back for another helping. It's up to both of you to determine whether the other person is sincere or not. On the other hand, walking away and leaving the other person frustrated to test their sincerity can have a detrimental effect too.

Just being close is good for me, I can just as easily sleep with a woman and not have love with them. I have even had a hot lesbian friend who trusted me enough to sleep in my bed with me when she came to see me. Because of the distance, she would stay overnight.

Just wondering if you sleep with each other on a first date why should it be the man that does not respect the woman ....... the man had a part to play to .........

Like Tryst said if you have an obvious sexual attraction then why put off the envitable ........ i suppose it also depends on how you see love in a relationship ...... i for one find it very important ........ so why hold out to make yourself think that the man is going to respect you more if you do then find out that the love is not all that .... thats not to say you have to sleep with them on the first date.

I waited 3 months with a guy once ...... we got really close , then finally slept together and we split quite shortly after ...... call me shallow but i need a guy who knows what he is doing, plus the closeness etc etc, a guy who makes me laugh, who wants me for me ...... am i being a little unrealistic do ya think

if two adults feel totally at ease with each other and find one another sexually attractive then i dont see no harm in them having safe love on the first night. im not saying its ok to go home with some stranger because of the safety issues concerning that scenario but if theres a mutual attraction and both feel good about it then why not?

Its only love and most people would do it with the right person. Obviously some might not for various reasons, but not sure I totally believe everyone who says they wouldn't.

If either person go on the date with the intention of having love that night then the chances of anything more serious happening is pretty slim a fb at best maybe but i cant see what the big deal is, if you fancy the pants of each other and both are up for it then go for it, things happen without even realising sometimes. But it depends on the person really and the situation. Statistics rule that chances of it developing are not great but thats not for all, i know people that did it on the first date and are still together years later. Ive waited and been hugely disappointed before! it all depends on the person and the amount of physical attraction there is!

Sometimes there is no difference to having love on the first date to having it on the second date. Depends how long and how well you had got to know each other before whilst just talking! I met a bloke on here and had spoke a fair bit before meeting and clicked on our first date had it not been a lunch time date we would have done it on the first date and would have still had the same relationship that we did!