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09.08.2008, 07:59 quote

jeggae

CMISO wrote:
I thought serial dating was where you met up with people and only had the intention of seeing them once or maybe twice before moving on to the next regardless of whether you liked them or not.

Which doesn't seem to be what you intend.


Not really mate, although I'm not really sure what I want. The 2-3 women's persona's that I like are either taken or everyone else likes them

 
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09.08.2008, 08:02 quote

jeggae

DeepthroatH wrote:

Jegs, my advice to you would be to try not to call it a date. If they want to meet up for a drink/cinema/meal whatever, then tell them yeah, fine, great, but try and get it in somewhere that it isnt a date!

I always make it plain its just to see if we click and get on, when I arrange these dates/meets.

DeepthroatH wrote:

i mean come on, Jegs - bet they are lining up for "dates..."

Wink

 
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10.08.2008, 08:24 quote

redelicious
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jeggae wrote:
Is there anything wrong with 'serial dating' on the net?

Ive decided to start going on dates to meet some of the women I'm chatting to on the net, but thinking about packing it in

I was chatting to a women on another site who has wanted to meet me for a while, I thought I'll be honest and tell her I'm going on a few dates with other women, she asked me 'are you a serial dater?' Surprised which stumped me a bit.

Although she still might be interested she has gone a bit cold.

How else are you supposed to get to know women without meeting/dating them? Or is honesty not the best thing in this case. I dont like doing things behind peoples backs, but dont want to be seen as a two timer.

I only meet women that show an interest in me first, and always make it plain I might not be interested in a relationship but only as 'friends'.

I dont expect to have a long term relationship with any of these women, but you never know.


Personally I think you're doing the right thing Jegs. You're being open and honest which are great qualities. Anyone who gets funny with you isn't appreciating the best of you. Keep doing what you're doing. Someone somewhere will like that in you eventually.
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10.08.2008, 10:56 quote

jeggae

redelicious wrote:
jeggae wrote:
Is there anything wrong with 'serial dating' on the net?

Ive decided to start going on dates to meet some of the women I'm chatting to on the net, but thinking about packing it in

I was chatting to a women on another site who has wanted to meet me for a while, I thought I'll be honest and tell her I'm going on a few dates with other women, she asked me 'are you a serial dater?' Surprised which stumped me a bit.

Although she still might be interested she has gone a bit cold.

How else are you supposed to get to know women without meeting/dating them? Or is honesty not the best thing in this case. I dont like doing things behind peoples backs, but dont want to be seen as a two timer.

I only meet women that show an interest in me first, and always make it plain I might not be interested in a relationship but only as 'friends'.

I dont expect to have a long term relationship with any of these women, but you never know.


Personally I think you're doing the right thing Jegs. You're being open and honest which are great qualities. Anyone who gets funny with you isn't appreciating the best of you. Keep doing what you're doing. Someone somewhere will like that in you eventually.


Thanks red.

Without wanting to sound conceited, I was thinking maybe the women was a bit jealous as she admitted she liked me. But then I wasnt sure she wasnt more experienced of net dating as some are, as I'm new to it.


I will keep telling them I am seeing other women off the net.

 
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