lol i think for some women not wanting any more kids is by necessity rather than choice. i always said i'd have no more than three and no less than two.
i wouldn't have just one child cos i think only children are lonely children.
i wouldn't have more than three cos.. if you have a girl and a boy and then another girl or boy comes along, then the two girls or two boys can share a room and the remaining one can have his/her own. but if you continue..... there's a chance you'll have another boy/girl and have three in the one room. i'm sorry....but houses today just aren't big enough lol.
unless you can buy a major house and have a football team full of them!
and then again there's the worry of how you're going to feed/clothe/educate/support in later life all these kids. and the answer to that is, of course, you can't. unless you are reasonably well off.
and another one is this ( i know i know i could go all day lmao) who is going to mind all these children????? the mother? the father? someone will have to stay home and not work.....for a while anyway......so who's going to nurture and who's going to hunt and gather?

phew..... i have two.... if i meet the right person i may or may not have another one...but just one. and not for a good few years until i've had some of my own life. i gave up my teen years being a mother. (i was sixteen when i gave birth) and i just wanna do well for myself and my kids right now.

now.... if some guy came along and was all sugary sweet until he found out i had kids, i'd laugh at my lucky escape!! my kids are an extension of myself. and if someone doesn't like my kids they don't like me.

ok....rant over lol

Oh I didn’t expect a rant so soon by one of my posts...

What I was trying to say is to me to have a child or 2 of my own is important to me. I would be a good father, I very much enjoy being part of small peoples lives, shaping them etc. I have a fun outlook on life and would want to be a very hands on father to my/her children.

I work away a bit with my job but when im home im home 100%. This can be difficult I know on relationships and kids, but I certainly not the type of person who would shirk his responsibility. There are some men/ladies out there who do, and I think that’s unforgivable.
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see there are so many women out there who don't have dads in their kids lives that they are playing thier cards very close to thier chests indeed. lol.

my kids dad aint seen the kids in over a year n half and that suits me fine.
but i wouldn't be so quick to get pregnant again.... if u see what i mean?

and my rant was not meant to be insulting or snappy. it was just a basic observation i have made.

This is where I come unstuck A younger guy than myself is likely to want kids of his, an older guy is unlikely to want to be bringing up someone else's kids as by then they've usually already done it.

I have 4 children, 2 teenage girls and 2 little boys. They are a part of me ie, I'm a package and it's all or nothing. I don't want a substite father for my kids, just someone who accepts that I am a parent.

i havnt got any children but i have five nieces and three nephews and its like there my own even if they wernt family i would still care about them the same way children are the best thing in the world
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