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Poll: Is it cheating on your real life situation to flirt/cybersex/create a cyber sexual relationship on the internet???

Is it cheating on your real life situation to flirt/cybersex/create a cyber sexual relationship on the internet???
YES!!!
62%
 62%  [ 37 ]
NO WAY!!!
10%
 10%  [ 6 ]
WOAH!!! Thats a tricky one, I dont know!
22%
 22%  [ 13 ]
I've never thought twice about it!!!
5%
 5%  [ 3 ]
Total Votes : 59
 

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10.05.2007, 15:44 quote

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danni82 wrote:

In my honest opinion. if someone is in a commited relationship with someone else, but proceeds to have "cyber sex" with someone else online. then it proves that there must be some underline problems within the exsiting relationship. and rather than having the balls ( pardon the pun) to go and speak with their partner and try and resolve these issuses they feel it better to get the satisfaction elsewhere. nievely believing that just because it is online nobody can get hurt. when infact the likleyhood is that someome will almost certainly get hurt


Yeah, that's more or less what I think. I certainly wouldn't be impressed if I was with someone and they were doing that sort of thing. I'd hazard a guess, too, that in quite a lot of cases the rude chat wasn't the only sort of "intimacy" going on, emotional bonds of other sorts would be being formed & open up the potential for real life things to happen, should it become a viable thing to do.

 

10.05.2007, 23:19 quote

Orbazm
Orbazm Joined: 16 Jan 2007 Posts: 264 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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PrincessTamz wrote:
Heres that age old question that must be being discussed more and more these days!

(I hope I've set this up right!) Very Happy


Who knows?

Shall we start one between us two and see how you feel?



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18.05.2007, 01:17 quote

dimpers
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danni82 wrote:
this is a hard one. Its a bit of a 50/50 street i personally dont get off on all that cyber stuff. but i have had boyfriends in the past who have. even tho they protest that not whilst with me lol.
In my honest opinion. if someone is in a commited relationship with someone else, but proceeds to have "cyber sex" with someone else online. then it proves that there must be some underline problems within the exsiting relationship. and rather than having the balls ( pardon the pun) to go and speak with their partner and try and resolve these issuses they feel it better to get the satisfaction elsewhere. nievely believing that just because it is online nobody can get hurt. when infact the likleyhood is that someome will almost certainly get hurt

couldn't hav said it better, yes i partake in th act but i'm single so it's not as if i've to answer to sum1. My sons mother cheated on me proper i got hurt, 4 times, it was never th same after i found out bout th last three all at once. as such i don't lyk cheaters, tho ma bro has he's a bad man!! from this i hav come to th conclusion it is much better to b faithful n honest wif my partners since it's js easier all round!!

 

18.05.2007, 11:05 quote

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irishlgirl74 Joined: 15 Jan 2007 Posts: 1444 Location: United Kingdom, Northern Ireland, Down
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I would have 2 say yes 2 this 1, my x left me for another that he was with on the internet, he says nothing went on between the 2 of them while we were married, but 3months later they were an item.

 

18.05.2007, 11:15 quote

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sex on a server Laughing no thanx

 

18.05.2007, 15:37 quote

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If I caught my other half doing that I'd go bananas! And would expect her to do the same if she caught me! Though that won't happen, I wouldn't do it even when single....
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18.05.2007, 15:51 quote

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its cheating as far as im concerned. if your willing to think about it whats stopping you from doing it in real life?

my ex got talking to someone in a simular way and thats why im single. the relationship wasnt realy going anywhere realy so maybe thats why she did it and she didnt seem to wanna sort the problems out.
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