IM AN OVERWEIGHT GUY AND I KNOW IT GOT BULLIED QUITE ALLOT AT SCHOOL MOST GIRLS SEEM TO AVOID OVERWEIGHT GUYS I KNOW I SHOULD JUST GO ON A DIET BUT ID RATHER FIND SOMEONE THAT LIKES ME FOR ME NOT ANYTHING ELSE.

Most fat guys have the best personalities anyway. I know one fat guy who gets as much action as i do..and he looks like a buddha. But hes confident with it and hes funny as marry. -Shrug- borrow his line "Ive got a body of a god...shame its a buddha"

lol true

Some girls love 'cuddly', I know quite a few who prefer a guy to have a little extra (not necessarily the beer gut fat though)
I agree that you should just be who you are. I'm overweight too and have learned to accept myself like that and expect the people I meet to do so as well. As mentioned above, it's more about the confidence you portray about yourself.

(shut up fanatic dieters and exercise addicts it won't be helpful here)
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and i know im only trying to make excuses but im fat through deppression when i was 13 my mum died and i just started comfort eating when i got put into fostercare! but trying to burn it all off now with football playing it not watching it tho! tho i must say i enjoy watching liverpool lose! lol

i seriously thinks if the girl really likes you for your inside, she wouldnt care if you're overweight or not.
ignore about the overweight thing, there's millions of people who are overweight.
have more confident in yourself.
the person who loves you, should accept you the way you are.
good luck .

its because you have no confidence, not because youre fat! You just need to be comfortable with yourslf nd how you look, the saying is if you cant love yourself, how can you expect someone else to love you?

Alternatively join a gym!!

well as a overweight guy myself( and i would say im probs way bigger then you) i can say that alot of women are very picky when it comes to weight. alot of them will say they would be fine with it but in reality they really arnt. but you do get a few good ones who can see past the overweight outershell and love you for the person you are inside and that is who you become outside to them. well in my opinion anyway