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Home >> Dating >> Open Topic Flirting
07.09.2006, 21:48 quote
| pollyanna37 wrote: | ||||
I do not believe that for one minute Red! I take a deep breath, smile, eyes open and hope that he is not looking at me thinking 'oh shit the fat girl is grinning inanely at me!' Pol x |
I am very shy in those kind of situations. I'm bigger than i look so the first thing i think of is the same as you, then, 'why would anyone want to bother with me anyway'? Pathetic eh
07.09.2006, 21:53 quote
| redoctober wrote: | ||||||
I am very shy in those kind of situations. I'm bigger than i look so the first thing i think of is the same as you, then, 'why would anyone want to bother with me anyway'? Pathetic eh |
No not pathetic, I think flirting with someone you like the look of is the hardest thing in the world!
For me flirting is like breathing, something I just do naturally until I fancy them, then I turn into a pathetic stuttering wreck!
Hey ho! That is why the forums are a great thing, typed flirting makes everyone much braver!
Pol x
07.09.2006, 21:53 quote
Red i'm a chunky guy so i often feel the same as you!
One thing if i saw you in a pub your smile would captivate me! But there again you'd probably think whats that crinkly old git grinning at me for?
LOL
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07.09.2006, 22:01 quote
god we are all starting to sound downhearted here..now we know everyone feels like this we should accept its not easy for anyone, stop worrying about it, and do it..
07.09.2006, 22:02 quote
I always make eye contact...if he carries on looking, give him a smile. If he doesn't run away screaming, I go and talk to him.
07.09.2006, 22:06 quote
| 53846 wrote: |
| god we are all starting to sound downhearted here..now we know everyone feels like this we should accept its not easy for anyone, stop worrying about it, and do it.. |
Good point! I am heading out right now to go and find someone to practise getting over myself!
Pol x
08.09.2006, 03:16 quote
| pollyanna37 wrote: | ||||||||
No not pathetic, I think flirting with someone you like the look of is the hardest thing in the world! For me flirting is like breathing, something I just do naturally until I fancy them, then I turn into a pathetic stuttering wreck! Hey ho! That is why the forums are a great thing, typed flirting makes everyone much braver! Pol x |
How do you flirt i'm shy
08.09.2006, 05:51 quote
| eccles wrote: |
| Red i'm a chunky guy so i often feel the same as you!
One thing if i saw you in a pub your smile would captivate me! But there again you'd probably think whats that crinkly old git grinning at me for? LOL |
It would seem my smile is my best feature. It gets commented a lot on the main site and it has attracted attention in the 'real' world, but the minute I realise that my smiling at someone has got the desired effect, I head for the loos in a blind panic
You might recognise this thought pattern Pol (and a few others no doubt)
"cor, he's nice... smile a bit Tracy, look at him, he's seen me.... oh my god he's smiling back... what the hell do i do?.... look away for a minute or 2..... that's better... calm again... now take another look... make this one a bit coyer, the guys are a sucker for the coy look.... that's it Tracy, nice smile, use the eyelashes... oh sh*t, he's smile just got bigger... oh my god.. sh*t... bugger... deep breathes (of course that puffs out my ample chest!!!!!)...close eyes, calm down... open eyes.... oh f*ck, he's coming towards, me where's the sodding loos?!!!!......."
08.09.2006, 06:47 quote
That's a shame, because you'd done it perfectly up until then.
After that, just chat, be yourself and RESULT!
08.09.2006, 06:59 quote
I agree once the smile has broken the ice let the chat come naturally! most people will recognise a degree of nervousness and allow for the fact! i usually try and make a joke and that opens the ice a little more!
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08.09.2006, 07:05 quote
| eccles wrote: |
| I agree once the smile has broken the ice let the chat come naturally! most people will recognise a degree of nervousness and allow for the fact! i usually try and make a joke and that opens the ice a little more! |
I can cope with joking idiots
08.09.2006, 07:07 quote
Well i'm a joker!
a gibbering idiot only when confronted with a lady i fancy RED!
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08.09.2006, 07:08 quote
LMAO well that's me buggered then, I can't talk for shit if i'm anywhere near anyone I fancy and if I do it's normally coming out at mach 4 hehehe
08.09.2006, 10:23 quote
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| a gibbering idiot only when confronted with a lady i fancy RED! |
Yet here you have an opportuntiy to polish flirting technique's with a virtual person? Once everyone recovers from reading Red's post.
My handicap is that when I see a pretty lady sitting alone I am sure that the boyfriend must be hiding close by. I am very suspicious of some of the ladies posting here. They are far too pretty to not have a boyfriend tucked away somewhere.
Ray
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