Apart from us doing the household chores lol....... Is it always only about looks or the way our body curves ? i mean come on how many of you can admit you browse through the profiles if the girl isnt good looking you wouldnt give her a second look ! Is there actually any genuine men out there who wants a girl because shes intelligent and holds good conversation and is great company ? not just becasue she looks good on your arm ! Come on guys give us some honest answers becasue this gal is sure fed up of wasting my time with big headed egotistic men lol does liking the person inside never count no more ?
i no one of you is gona give an answer that will bring a smile to my face !

Well I'll be sensible for once. I'd rather date an average looking girl who has brains and personality than a dumb ass bimbo who thinks more about her looks than anything else. Done that been there and they bore me. Im an inteligent man (no funny comments thank you) so require the same in a woman.

you must be the only one lol....... maybe its because im still young lol

I will talk to anyone, but the person needs to be able to hold a semi decent conversation and not be talking about themselves all the time, or "this one time..." type senario.

Of course looks play a part in it, but then everyone has different tastes, and to assume that looks do not have any influence is complete tosh. Someeones looks are the first thing we see and make our decisions apon, shall i/shant i? type decisions.

As above i would much rather have someone who was average looking and intelligent, as a pose to having someone that was stunning, and stunningly thick. Unfortunately due to media content and all that a lot of people are more influenced by pictures, and how we "should" look, which tbh is a load of balls, we are who we are, be happy.

I think genuine nice guys are out there, but they tend to be the slightly less extrovert ones so they stay hidden amongst the sea of egotistical men that floods our planet. I would much rather be with a sweet, caring, opinionated girl who stimulates my mind rather than my trousers but alas, they are similarly hard to find amongst the oh too short denim mini skirts and trowelled on make-up girls. Maybe there should be a club or bar where you have to have an IQ instead of some ID, then we might all meet someone we like and want to be with.

Any thoughts?

lol you cannot split girls into two groups like that... mini skirt wearers and smart girls... you think girls who look good and wear nice clothes or "sexy" clothes cannot be smart? to be honest you would have to have a talk with a sober girl to really know what she is like... im no empty head but give me a few drinks and i'll start to gibber and laugh at nothing. and i have been known to wear my fair share of short skirts too hehe.

i am currently writing a novel, studying for my qualifications in webdesign, raising two children on my own, and trying to look good the whole time.. ie. slapping on the makeup and doin up the hair.

sorry guys, rant over.

i can hounestly say maybe on a night out if im out with the lads on the pull, ill tend to look at more attractive ones but thats for the night,


you find girls like that done have much personality (no offence) but its true, you cant hold a decent convo with them, u get there number and txt each other an realise that and it soon dies out, my last GF i was with a year, agen no offence to her because i still care alot for her, but she wasnt the best looking thinest girl around, we just seem to have clicked, we met you for a few drinks and things a fair few times and realised that we got on really well. but descoverd with have different interests, even down to music we both hated what each other listend to and couldnt have a good night out beecause of that.

now i tend to look for girls that love bein out can atleast stand my music (trance, hard trance etc...) and hold a good conversation looks wise comes later as i wasnt physically attracted to my last GF alot i think its possible to find some one out there that is just as good to get along with

OK, i'm not the genius (or speller) I prefer to be thought of, though looking at some people... Anyway I try to find women who are of approachable looks, with similar interests, not identical, but similar, IE like going out, films, music genre, adventerous personality, etc. You know what I mean someone you can still talk to having been driving around for a few hours, and someone who's willing to try anything once.

Well there are many women who go for good looking guys, tall and handsome and all that dreams nature has instilled in them same with men, it is the reproduction subconscious still controlling our life’s whether we like it or not natural selection...

Through my past relationships, yes I dated many normal and good looking ladies I did find out the model type have no personality, softness, or communications. May be few of them are but I have not met them...

To me I look for sensuality, passion, communication, and soft heart in my lady, any other things are plus or minus depends or how we look at it.

Other thing I was very intrigued about is astro match I tend to go well with earthy and watery signs and get on for many years rather than few months.

I'm just looking for somebody who's reasonably good looking, somebody who I can have a great laugh with and is genuine. I'm easily pleased.

lol- love it

it sounds so simple doesn't it!
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my idea was simple. but I get carried away by typing fingers too often...