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05.06.2006, 22:20 quote

Anonymous

Well this is a touchy subject...

There are reasons behind women being labeled as 'slags' if they cheat, the main reason i come across is the fact that women are more expected to be loyal, so when they dont become loyal guys lash out with slag etc...

Where as man are found to be less loyal by women, and when they cheat women dont label them as slags but more as a 'bastard'

Its just 2 ways of retaliation <sp?>

Its more known that guys have lad talk and are like yeh i had 6 women blah blah blah.

Where as women would discuss the actual love and say yeh this was good that was good. So when women are found to have cheated they get labeled as a slag.

I think its more towards the old fashioned men are alpha.

 

05.06.2006, 22:29 quote

Anonymous

How about men and women both have the same titel
dishonest disrespectful scumbags Laughing

 

05.06.2006, 22:30 quote

babygirkuk
babygirkuk Joined: 07 Apr 2006 Posts: 382 Location: United Kingdom, England, Birmingham
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danni82 wrote:
How about men and women both have the same titel
dishonest disrespectful scumbags Laughing


well said i agree wiv u Very Happy

 

12.06.2006, 11:08 quote

Anonymous

Not all men cheat and not all women are faithful

caught my ex out not cheating exactly but being deceiptful - we had spilit up but she wanted to keep me as a friend (just in case things didnt work out with new b/f) I had ended it anyway but she told me a pack of lies whilst she was seeing someone else.
what it boiled down to is that she wanted someone to pay her mortgage!
ie tried to get me back saying she had changed and when I wouldnt moved back in she went out with first bloke who asked her out and dropped me like a hot brick! Used her little boy as an excuse saying he missed me and dog kept being sick etc how shallow is that? Even admitted that she didnt feel much for him and that she still had feelings for me! What was she thinking that I may go back? NO WAY
Sent me text to say sorry and she was just trying to save my feelings, I told her where to go! Who needs friends like that? My fault for not seeing the signs as she had always been deceiptful. wouldnt be surprised if she had cheated.

Crazy as it sounds I was shocked that i was so hurt because there were many things wrong and it would never have worked. I feel sorry for her new bloke cos she is using him as a meal ticket!

OK thats all me baggage out of the way and I feel much better - lol

 

12.06.2006, 21:33 quote

acedit
Joined: 28 Nov 2005 Posts: 25 Location: United Kingdom, England, Cambridgeshire
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hummm my X wife cheated on me for a number of years, we were married for 13.5yrs and for the last 4 i new she was having an affair, but not to be to boring i said noting because my kids were still young, it was her best friend who told me lol, he was just 21 she was 30 ( now no longer a couple i may add lol ), so yes women can be as bad as men, i am old fassioned in that way, i belive in my vows love honourn and so on, i never did cheat on her once, i still do belive in the sanactay of marriage. daft i know Embarassed
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13.06.2006, 09:28 quote

Anonymous

women cheat as much as men do, they are just better at being more discreet about it.

 

13.06.2006, 09:34 quote

mattbee
mattbee Joined: 11 Jun 2006 Posts: 15 Location: United Kingdom, England, Cheshire
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darknight wrote:
women cheat as much as men do, they are just better at being more discreet about it.


he's right

 

14.06.2006, 06:58 quote

soulfiddla

I find women tend to put up with a lot more than they need too. But again in general, women tend to be controlled more by their emotions, and because of this most of what they decide is based mainly on emotion. Men on the other hand tend to be creatures of logic and make their decisions on most given subjects based on the logic behind actions. So when it comes to cheating men generally preffer to think of what follows that act, women tend to think well he says he loves so he'll change and it usually takes a bit to come to the logical part. Again I think women just need to come round to getting more control of their emotions and think more for themselves, and we'll see that women are perfectly capable of doing anything a man can do and probably more!

 
 
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