why do men get away wiv cheatin ? yet women get the names such as slag slut and so on wen they cheat? dnt seem rite 2 me!!

I detest cheats, whether male or female. ALL cheaters are all slags and sluts, not just the women!

They only get away with it if you let them.

If a guy cheats on me, he's out of the door, and i'd expect the same. No matter how many 'i love you's (s)he says. If (s)he cheats, (s)he obviously doesn't.

Men dont get away with it, Things like cheating always come back and bite them on the butts eventually.
And pretty much could be said for women too.

People only gegt away with it if the other partner lets them.
Simple as that.
It is always difficult when you find out a partner has cheated on you and sometimes due to one reason or another the cheated on can make the wrong decision. but eventually the thought of the betrayal and lost trust eats away at you till you eventually have to snap.
I was 8 months pregnant when i was cheated on, and thought hell ill stick with it. Biggest mistake of my life.
Everytime i looked at him i could see her ect ect eventually i had enough and finnished it. but if i had of had any common sense i would have shown him the door immediatly.

As i said people only get away with It if you let them.

And i am sorry but i have to stick up for the male society now but from all the people i know and concidering that prob 80% of my friends are male, it has been mostly the female of the speacies that have been the cheater.

Studies have shown that when a person believes their partner to be cheating 85% of women are correct comparred to 50% of men being correct.
And that is solely because men are not as intuitve as women are there fore most men are blissfully unawere that while there wife is at yoga she is infact having a compleatly different type of cardio work out.

I dont condone cheating at all, in fact i think it shows the cheater to be a very weak indervidulalwho has lack of self respect and disipline

that is terrible 4 u at the end of the day shouldnt they be the people u trust the most,if u cant trust them who can u trust,and do u still talk 2 any of them.a friend maybe but they cant be much of a friend,but a sis and niece what happened there,would u ever trust again ..................

I figure this is a discussion. I'll put forward the fact that technically, as a species, we're not designed to spend our entire lives with a single person. It's just that our society has decided it so.

We're attracted to people who are new to our lives, or are considered by us to be "attractive".

I'm not justifying cheating really, I think my arguement is more against a monogomous relationship. Which is odd, because i've had several excellent relationships.

Cheating isn't usually a sign you don't love someone, it's just letting your lust overcome you, it's dishonest to your partner and you'll usually get caught. I'm just trying to explain why some people do it. People ALWAYS say "there's underlying problems in the relationship". But that's just ridiculous, sometimes we just think with the wrong part of our bodies.

babygirluk.....thats terrible. to be honest though, if i were you, i think id be more pissed off at your sis, cousin and best friend though.

anyway, on the subject of cheating, i would guess that girls are worse for it then fella's.