Is it just me that gets men chasing them for ages on the web and when I agree to meet up with them, they don't show? Honestly, I'm not that scary

I can truly say that this happens to me for the majority of times I make arrangements with somebody from the web, and I really can't tell who's gona behave like that......not knowing is the worst bit 'cos sometimes I could be doing something different but end up doing nothing AND THEY DON'T EVEN LET ME KNOW usually either
Just wondering how can I tell!!!
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Screw them... You should put them to work...

Just call them to meet you in places you already need to go to... For short meetings... And then if it's mutual, you can meet them again...

Keep it short and simple. People are monkeys.

Oh and be busy... Don't act busy, just be busy... You won't have time to think about the fucker who didn't show on Monday, if you got a date with another fucker on Tuesday.

Cynical... I know. But life's too short to be played around.

I wasn't actually meaning I really did nothing 'cos I always meet where I can be doing something else that I wanted to do, but I meant that if I knew they weren't turning up I could have done something else that involved other people. Like my friend had an unexpected day off but as far as I knew, I wasn't free until it was too late to meet her anyway.

I guess what goes around, comes around....
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Why, thank you, kind people of my beautiful kingdom. BEHEHEHEHEH.

I know that's not what you meant, Sue, I just couldn't help myself. Prime-ministerial bitterness I guess.

Anyways... Obviously the subject was onto why would people do such things, and even show lack of respect, when they're the ones insisting in the first place...

However I don't know if there's an answer to that. I shall ask Itae on Ask bananaman. Maybe he knows.

As far as I'm concerned, so far, it should be as BRIGHT as telling someone you WILL ABSOLUTELY CALL THEM when you don't wanna see them again, even if they don't wanna see you again either. I've heard it's an ego thing, to not let the woman tell you "I'll see you around" and that you should try and burry her arse. Who the frick does she think she is to not like you? You're the one not liking HER.

Anyway... There are as many rules and complexities as people on earth. As for the lack of respect... Some people are just weird/sick/assholes... Who knows... I'm off to ask bananaman anyway. He should have a good point on this.

I'm not sure. Maybe it is the norm for people to not turn up. We all know there are a lot of unreliable timewasters on the net, who are only on here to wind people up.

I've been fortunate, as everyone I have arranged to meet on the net has turned up. Personally I'd never stand anyone up intentionally myself.