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10.03.2007, 14:44 quote

Anonymous

twistedvoilet wrote:
aDecentGuy wrote:
Wat is da prob wiv it man


u is da bomb boi Very Happy


wot?

Laughing

 

10.03.2007, 14:46 quote

Anonymous

aDecentGuy wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
aDecentGuy wrote:
Wat is da prob wiv it man


u is da bomb boi Very Happy


wot?

Laughing


i was trying to be clever, but failed Crying or Very sad

 

10.03.2007, 14:47 quote

Anonymous

twistedvoilet wrote:
aDecentGuy wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
aDecentGuy wrote:
Wat is da prob wiv it man


u is da bomb boi Very Happy


wot?

Laughing


i was trying to be clever, but failed Crying or Very sad


itz safe ma bredrin

 

10.03.2007, 14:51 quote

Anonymous

aDecentGuy wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
aDecentGuy wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
aDecentGuy wrote:
Wat is da prob wiv it man


u is da bomb boi Very Happy


wot?

Laughing


i was trying to be clever, but failed Crying or Very sad


itz safe ma bredrin


ive never heard that before... bredrin

 

10.03.2007, 15:09 quote

pasleptsiekare

aDecentGuy wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
aDecentGuy wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
aDecentGuy wrote:
Wat is da prob wiv it man


u is da bomb boi Very Happy


wot?

Laughing


i was trying to be clever, but failed Crying or Very sad


itz safe ma bredrin




Oi...itz breadbin innit

 

10.03.2007, 16:06 quote

DigitalAdonis
DigitalAdonis Joined: 04 Mar 2007 Posts: 170 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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Hmmm

Some people dont like to post a picture due to fear of rejection.
Rejection is one of my bigger fears and thats probably why im still single and rotting away at the ripe age of almost 27 Neutral

To be honest does it really matter if they have a picture or not? a pic only proves what you look like and if youre only interested in looks then your a heartless shallow person.

People have minds too and all too often that is forgotton about because of carnal instinct.

Said my bit

Moving on
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The only thing you can't get rid of by losing it is your temper!

 

10.03.2007, 16:08 quote

shhhhhhh7
Joined: 07 Mar 2007 Posts: 92 Location: United Kingdom, England, Nottinghamshire
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DigitalAdonis wrote:
Hmmm

Some people dont like to post a picture due to fear of rejection.
Rejection is one of my bigger fears and thats probably why im still single and rotting away at the ripe age of almost 27 Neutral

To be honest does it really matter if they have a picture or not? a pic only proves what you look like and if youre only interested in looks then your a heartless shallow person.

People have minds too and all too often that is forgotton about because of carnal instinct.

Said my bit

Moving on


I totally agree.
Would you? Wink

 

10.03.2007, 16:20 quote

Anonymous

twistedvoilet wrote:
aDecentGuy wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
aDecentGuy wrote:
twistedvoilet wrote:
aDecentGuy wrote:
Wat is da prob wiv it man


u is da bomb boi Very Happy


wot?

Laughing


i was trying to be clever, but failed Crying or Very sad


itz safe ma bredrin


ive never heard that before... bredrin


bredrin is Jamaican way of saying brethren..in case you don't already know Wink

 

10.03.2007, 16:21 quote

Anonymous

DigitalAdonis wrote:
Hmmm

Some people dont like to post a picture due to fear of rejection.
Rejection is one of my bigger fears and thats probably why im still single and rotting away at the ripe age of almost 27 Neutral

To be honest does it really matter if they have a picture or not? a pic only proves what you look like and if youre only interested in looks then your a heartless shallow person.

People have minds too and all too often that is forgotton about because of carnal instinct.

Said my bit

Moving on


not many people are ONLY interested in what the other person looks like, but its common courtesy to have a picture up, especially if the person you are messaging has one up also. after all, if it ever gets beyond messaging stage they are gonna have to see what you look like at some point, so why bother hiding ya face? face the music...and dance!

 

10.03.2007, 17:03 quote

Anonymous

This being the hive of scum and villainy known as the internet I can't see how a picture matters so much. There are a lot of bullshitters out there (photoshop and a flattering angle can work wonders). If looks are so important I suggest you cut to the chase and meet them within a couple of days, or just don't bother using the internet for this sort of thing.

I've used the internet for meeting people in the past, though not for 'dating', and I'm continually shocked at the amount of people who look nothing like their description or whatever photo they've used. We're not just talking slight discrepancies here either. We're talking photos from several years or stone ago etc.

 

10.03.2007, 17:32 quote

Anonymous

well each to their own i guess, id rather reply to a message with a photo tbh as as much as some people like to deny that physical attraction is not important, it actually plays a lot more important role that we might actually be aware in our interaction with other people, be it on dating sites, in a shop or in the pub etc, theres always alot going on unconsciously, but like i said, each to their own and we are all free to beleive what we want to beleive Very Happy

 

10.03.2007, 17:47 quote

Anonymous

I don't disagree with you at all m8. I'm a great believer in looks being a foot in the door (you can't escape human nature). But I've learned over the years that some people will go to great lengths to camouflage themselves when they're on the internet. Call it lack of self-confidence or whatever (God knows I still suffer from it), but it happens more often than you think.

Personally if theres a bit of interest there I'd like to see them person. You really can't go by a few random pixels. It could be anything.

 

10.03.2007, 18:46 quote

westcoasttaco
westcoasttaco Joined: 22 Jan 2007 Posts: 25 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Glasgow
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Quote:
well there u go ur only young and u dnt want men like in there 30s and above ''pevrvin'' so yer i get wot u mean!!


lol!!!!! u think once a guy reaches 30, and is interested in you, he's pervin?? Rolling Eyes

we're not all like that u know....believe it or not, sometimes its just nice to chat to someone without trying to park the pink cadillac Wink

 

11.03.2007, 20:12 quote

Anonymous

DigitalAdonis wrote:
Hmmm

Some people dont like to post a picture due to fear of rejection.
Rejection is one of my bigger fears and thats probably why im still single and rotting away at the ripe age of almost 27 Neutral

To be honest does it really matter if they have a picture or not? a pic only proves what you look like and if youre only interested in looks then your a heartless shallow person.

People have minds too and all too often that is forgotton about because of carnal instinct.

Said my bit

Moving on


Well I always want to see a pic before I reply, it doesn't mean I'm ONLY interested in looks, it means I'm looking for a date and (shock! horror!) want to date someone I actually fancy. I don't think this makes me 'shallow and heartless'.

But yeah, photos don't always tell the truth, I met up with one guy and he said he wouldn't have recognised me from my pic if it wasn't for the fact I'd said I'd be in the pub reading a paper, and my pic is less than 3 months old (with no major facial surgery in the meantime). And the same went for his pic/real life appearance.

 

11.03.2007, 20:25 quote

Anonymous

its always good to see what people look like... cos you tend to build a image in your head..

but when i look at profiles i look at what theyve written and base my interest on that.. and if they look good then bonus..

 
 
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