well ill be straight. im in a relationship but my mrs well goes out every weekend fri sat sun and most weekends she stays out on a friday or saturday night,and tells me she staying at her freinds lol,now we not had love for over 14 months now and weve not kisses probally about the same amount of time,so now i think i dont want to kick her out and upset my 2 kids 1 at 14 1 at 6,so what i am attemting to do is get someone i can secretly have 1 night stands with but in the daytime,so my kids dont miss me as there so use to me doing most things for them,i take the school do most meals and take them out ect pictures and stuff,and this is while i have a job,so i think i should be allowed to have a little fun,ive forgot what its like to kiss a girl let alone have love with her
.so im looking for a bit of discreet fun whether it be just kiss and cuddles or love im not to bothered,i just want to feel a little loved

is there any harm to this???????????

before you say talk it out with her,been there done that tried the lot,so my next step is probally best for me,to try find a lady or girl who will give me few kisses and cuddles or even that little bit more,i would be happy just to be able to snog a girl again ll

we are still good together in the way of talking ect,our kids no nothing and think all is normal,its ok judgeing a person for doing wrong,but you cannot unitill you have been in this kind of situation

we still do daily things together shopping ect so kids see normal life,

ive been with this girl 20 years now so as you can imagen we are not going to blank each other out let the kids feel the pressure are we now.god knows what will happen but what ever it is our kids will be fine,so i cheat on these grounds as im getting no love and i just want to feel loved a little,we all need lovin