The guys user name has not been mentioned so he cannot be identified (I presume you are talking about Nixys post). If someone found it offensive then thats their perogative and opinion. It all boils down to each individuals persective on what abuse is and how they distinguish it.

However I do suggest if you have an issue with this that you pm Toby/God as he is the one that suggested it
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Whereas I would be happy to share snippets of 'dodgey' messaging, I certainly wouldn't feel happy to name anyone via this forum.

Nixy I have deleted your original post and edited any posts quoting it thereafter.

I have made a suggestion to pm Toby about this thread as I think this decision is down to him on this one.

Just for info my personal stand point on it is the same as some of the others. If someone is personally abuse to me then yeah I could see me naming and shaming them but other than that I dont think I would. As Myriad puts it, I may share some of my dodgy messages sometimes as a clue as to what NOT to write in messages because the majority of women wont respond to them in any postive way. I will not name people unless there is a damn good reason for it in my mind.
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right lets start again, ive added rules to my orginal post

Roll up, Roll up!

Get your flaming torches and pitchfork's here

Out and about, miss me?

p.s. Liking the new pic, methinks you might need to buy a pitchfork to keep all the boys at bay!

I'm going to name and shame myself in advance so no one else needs to do it