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11.07.2007, 08:20 quote

Anonymous

god has said in the disgusting messages thread thats we can name and shame the culprits

so bring it on guys


edit..

if you know of scammers/cam girls, or people that actually abuse you, then name and shame them here.
if its people lying on profiles, saying their single or what not, post that too
if its what you would class as disgusting, then you can post the message but not the username

the rule of thumb is, if there is someon out there that you need to warn others about then post their username, if its a twat wanting cyber or what not, then dont post the username

does that make sense?

 

11.07.2007, 09:07 quote

Anonymous

Ladies should watch out for the jimnick character.

On 28th June.
"im 43, really well off, married with a kid, looking for weekend fun in London. I would really look after you if your interested get back to me"

Then on 7th July.
"i am 43, have 1 boy, 13, divorced 3years, retired, sold my company in march now just getting bored. using this site to meet women for casual love up until now but i think that stage has ran its course, i get a bit loanly being on my own so much, even when i travel to my other home just looking for a companion, female buddie sort of thing, travel mate, someone sexy and fun. is that u? I know u r a bit younger but i promise i would take really good care of u"

COOL. I am impressed. His profile says he's 40 and he likes HONESTY.

 

11.07.2007, 10:48 quote

Anonymous

"mmm you are very fuckable! msn me on DELETED@hotmail.com "

Do we tell them they made the list? I did....

 

11.07.2007, 10:49 quote

Anonymous

Can't we just call this the MAN HATE thread and have done?

 

11.07.2007, 10:54 quote

Anonymous

chikhai wrote:
Can't we just call this the MAN HATE thread and have done?


You're welcome to post ones you receive from girls chik....

 

11.07.2007, 10:55 quote

susiexxx

The trouble with this name and shame thread is that some messages women receive from guys might find them distasteful and disgusting where others might not.....I would probably only name and shame if the guy (or woman) messaging me was personally abusive to me..other than just block them ..

 

11.07.2007, 10:59 quote

Anonymous

chikhai wrote:
Can't we just call this the MAN HATE thread and have done?


We don't hate men, though, or we wouldn't be here. I'm sure it's a free for all.

 

11.07.2007, 11:02 quote

Anonymous

susiexxx wrote:
The trouble with this name and shame thread is that some messages women receive from guys might find them distasteful and disgusting where others might not.....I would probably only name and shame if the guy (or woman) messaging me was personally abusive to me..other than just block them ..


I understand what you are saying Susie, if my profile said I was "up for anything" and all my likes were listed as "love" then I would not, and should not be upset when I get these kinds of messages.

My profile says I am looking to chat to people, and I am looking for "anything but love", My post was the first ever message I received from him, and it is no way to speak to anyone.

If I am being a prude or have high morals or something, then fine, but he should go and talk to the other girls who are interested in this kind of thing.

All this guy did was see a picture of a girl we would like to stick his thing in, and send a message to me in the vain hope of getting somewhere. He had no regard for my feelings, I have replied to him sending him the link to this thread, I hope he comes here and reads it, thinks about how he approaches others and changes his attitude.

 

11.07.2007, 11:50 quote

imperfect

I agreeee...
But oh well in the end it's just him who's gonna look stupid
Lol he deserves to have his name on here Surprised that BeanFlickerUK guy messaged me a while ago too. Can't be bothered to find the message though.. He's the prude not you! I kinda doubt he'd change his attitude Confused I feel sorry for him

 

11.07.2007, 12:51 quote

Anonymous

Nixy69 wrote:
Edited at original posters request by Cazz


Sorry Nixy, but although you might have found this message offensive, is it really? He made it clear what he wanted (and was offering) without being verbally offensive or using vile language, and on the surface was in fact very polite and articulate, which is a lot better response to your profile than you might have got from the one-liner brigade.

I do not want to belittle your feeling that this person should be named & shamed, but I think you should also take into consideration that under the 'Looking for....' part of your profile, you include (amongst others):
one-night stands
discreet encounters
casual encounters
a threesome with 1 guy and 2 girls
a threesome with 1 girl and 2 guys


At the risk of pointing out the obvious, you are almost certainly going to get offers like the one you posted above, you were lucky to get one so eloquently worded (rather the usual 'fancy a shag?' message)

 

11.07.2007, 13:11 quote

Anonymous

Oh a bitch slap thread, ..this is going to get messy Very Happy

 

11.07.2007, 13:16 quote

Anonymous

Don't care mate, I made a very valid point (or points). His message is not offensive considering the receipients 'Looking for.....' list.

Whislt nearly all the complaints about messages that I've read in various threads on this board are justified, some are not. If someone states that are looking for (amongst other things) one-night stands, discreet encounters or casual encounters, what kind of response do they expect to get?

 

11.07.2007, 13:25 quote

Anonymous

No and i never implyed that i found that message offensive, this thread is for the name and shame so girls and maybe men Razz can be warned what this person is really after. Especially as i have recieved a long line of messages from that bloke the one that i posted was just the tip of the iceburg. Everyone is entitled to their opinion at the end of the day, but thank you for pointing out how invalid my point is, must be more careful about what i post in future Rolling Eyes

 

11.07.2007, 13:33 quote

AmorousAngel
Joined: 17 Feb 2007 Posts: 3 Location: United Kingdom, England, Kent
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I agree Darkhorse, perfectly valid points.

I once was messaged by a guy on here asking if I would pay for the pleasure of his 'company' as he was looking for business! perfectly polite but unwelcome all the same - message deleted long ago but just going to check my profile now and see if I am that desperate! lol

 

11.07.2007, 13:56 quote

Tastyfox
Joined: 10 Jul 2007 Posts: 1 Location: United Kingdom, England, London
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I dont agree dark, i've got everything ticked on my profile but it doesn't give someone the right to just send you messages like that, guarenteed it waasn't the worst message in the world but im sure every lady on here has had those types of messages sent to her because she is open minded. You act like just because you have those options ticked it gives people some sort of special right to send messages of a distateful nature to you. Nixy made her point and theres is no need for anyone to try to discredit someone elses nature because they have a few boxes ticked. Very Happy

 
 
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