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18.03.2010, 11:21 quote

coqueta25
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I met this guy 3 months ago in a club and we made out and dated a couple of times...Last week I has a job interview and they got me! But my surprise came the first day at work, when he was introduced to me as my boss...What should I do? Talk to him? Let it be? Keep dating him? Find another job? I´m freaking out!!

 

18.03.2010, 12:02 quote

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Don't tell your colleagues, but make an effort to talk to your boss. It shouldn't look suspiscious as you're a new member of staff, but you do need to sort out whether it's likely to be an issue for either of you.
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18.03.2010, 12:10 quote

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...sound advice
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18.03.2010, 14:17 quote

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s6boystu Joined: 06 Mar 2008 Posts: 3122 Location: United Kingdom, England, Essex
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ask for a pay rise Laughing

(well, someone had to say it didn't they Very Happy )
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18.03.2010, 14:37 quote

coqueta25
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Guys, I talked to him 2 minutes ago..He said literaly: "Nobody needs to know, I am happily married but with no children. When can I see you again?"

Hardcore!!I am about to quit. I already found another job at venta de oro, not the job of my dreams, but I cant stand the situation anymore

 

18.03.2010, 14:49 quote

xkatie6x

i hope you said never and told him where to go

 

18.03.2010, 15:28 quote

gypsymoon
gypsymoon Joined: 17 Jan 2010 Posts: 2655 Location: United Kingdom, England, Norfolk
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coqueta25 wrote:
Guys, I talked to him 2 minutes ago..He said literaly: "Nobody needs to know, I am happily married but with no children. When can I see you again?"
Hardcore!!


I'm assuming you didn't know he was married before....
what a rat!!!
I hope you're not going to meet him now, just keep the relationship on a professional basis.
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18.03.2010, 17:47 quote

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Telenovelas, woohoo ! Very Happy

 

29.03.2010, 00:00 quote

bobby85
Joined: 19 Oct 2007 Posts: 5 Location: United Kingdom, England, Greater Manchester
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I had soething similar once, except I was the boss and the circumstances were slightly more crude. Basically I got with a girl in a club, then 3 days later I was her Manager at a Corporate event. She was working as a temporary bar worker in my section! We just laughed it off and ended up being quite good friends through work.

You did the right thing in clearing the air, there's no point in having awkwardness in the workplace over such good things, so long as you let him know where you stand...

 
 
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