is it just me or does anyone feel enraged when their ex has moved on? for me i believe its just my pride being dented either that or am just pissed that i never first!!he wasnt the love of my life or anything

for me it depends on a lot of things, how long we was together, how long we have spilt up and what the relationship is like.

sometimes i have felt gutted, but its the way the cookie crumbles, most of the time when ive spilt up from someone, ive usually been the one back into a relationship first, but sometimes i waited, to get things sorted in my life and gain my independance back

thats exactly where i been at so it was pretty obvious that the idiot i was with wouldnt take time out

Agree with Vi, ..it depends who did the dumping and what the relationship was like really, ....i split with my girlfriend a few weeks ago through mutual agreement and i havnt wasted any time pining away for her, ...as im sure she hasnt either.

Nothing personal Lou, but I was just thinking tonight that wouldn't it be lovely to meet a woman who doesn't feel it necessary to bang on about what a total shite her ex is.....

Maybe, one day.

tim

My ex didn't waste any time replacing me - 6 days. I was positive something was going on when I was with her because I'm not stupid.

For me, when it's over it's over. I do agree with the "depends on the dumper" and the period of time spent together. Anyways, when someone hooks up just a couple of days after ya split, for me it means one of two things: he/she is gorgeous or that hookin up took place even before you split and now it became official...

i dont uncannily enough feel any better for your posts

The only time I was ever mad at an ex for moving on was with the dreaded ex. And the reason was because when he moved on, he forgot he had children. It's been two years now since he's seen them. Wankbag.

As the others said.... what you're feeling is natural, and to be expected, especially if the breakup was not particularly amicable.
My last breakup was.......hectic, to say the least....but I wouldn't feel angry at him moving on..... all you have to do is remember....Ex's are ex's for a reason, hunni. And then hopefully, you can move on too!

Life goes on no matter what happens to us so you just have to accept things and get on with it. I've been glad for all of my ex's when they moved on. Pining just means you're not moving on with your own life.

Just because they move on it doesnt mean they're over you and you'll usually find after the anger goes away that they'll miss you before you do them.

When you become single after a relationship, I don't think it should be a race to find another relationship! It can take time to find someone you are congruent with. I'm sure my ex has met all sorts of men. I feel more sorry for those men than for myself though!

i broke up with someone at the begining of the year, it was obvious we were not right for each other in the end so i dont care who or when she finds somebody else really, just glad i wont be wasting my time on the wrong person anymore....

i find men date way 2 soon after relationships i believe u need a time to grieve......i always wait @ least a hr lol month (least of all no u not preggy ).....But most fems can live on own most men cant