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14.05.2007, 19:06 quote

pasleptsiekare

I....can't remember ever being dumped. I'm usually the one who dumps people.

I guess...in a warped kind of way.....my first boyfriend dumped me. Evil or Very Mad

 

14.05.2007, 19:14 quote

SunshineSuperman
SunshineSuperman Joined: 08 May 2007 Posts: 100 Location: United Kingdom, England, Worcestershire
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This was about 6 years ago now but ........... I was dumped because for a few months my long term girlfriend (7 YEARS) was sleeping with someone behind my back. I only found out when she dumped me ... and not from her !!!

 

17.05.2007, 15:28 quote

Anonymous

I've never been dumped and have never really dumped anyone, ....i spose the relationships just sort of fizzled out over time and has been sort of a mutual agreement.

No point in staying with someone if the spark isn't there anymore

 

23.05.2007, 16:40 quote

Jillc23
Jillc23 Joined: 22 Apr 2007 Posts: 8 Location: United Kingdom, Scotland, Tayside
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cheekyeyes wrote:
Jillc23 wrote:
my ex decided that he'd never loved me in the right way since day one, but it took him almost 2 years to work that out.

In the end, was a joint decision, and we've stayed really close friends, (too close on 2 occasions, the second of which ended up with a little more than we bargained for... 6 months pregnant just now!) but despite the fact he's now in another relationship, we're still best of friends.

A LONG time ago, a relationship just ended... I think perhaps it was me who ended it, but nothing was actually discussed. I walked on on my then BF kissing another girld (who was supposed to be just a friend) and in a drunken stupour, I end up kissing her myself.... then I walked out... oops.


Od dear ..this has got to be one for jerry springer Smile



Too tame? well add to that the fact that I have met my ex's new gf and we're getting along great, had lunch with her the other day and we're going out next weekend together... the 3 of us. Can you imagine it? My ex shows up with me heavily pregnant on one arm and her on the other.... oh those tongues will be wagging!!!

 

26.05.2007, 14:08 quote

beddo
beddo Joined: 15 Oct 2006 Posts: 290 Location: United Kingdom, England, Merseyside
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Not much to choose from but my first girlfriend told me she didn't know why but the feeling was gone. It was kind of hard seeing her light up at the fact she was now free. I subsequently found out that was because it meant she could go visit someone else in Scotland guilt free.

Oh well.

Never dumped anyone and I'm not the kind of person to give up trying until the other person tells me to.

 

26.05.2007, 15:55 quote

Micycle379
Micycle379 Joined: 25 May 2007 Posts: 4 Location: United Kingdom, England, Cheshire
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i was at work alot and she was bored when im not around (she was at college, I paid the bills)... bearing in mind if I did any less we wouldn't have been able to eat, or have a house. . .

 

26.05.2007, 16:32 quote

Anonymous

I can't handle the thought that you may have another nervous breakdown. This llittle gem by my ex-fiancee 7 years ago. Doesn't the guy realise he was part of the breakdown ?? duh!! UT

 

26.05.2007, 18:28 quote

Anonymous

my fiance told me he could no longer handle a commited relationship after two and a half years. no other explanation Confused

 

29.05.2007, 00:08 quote

wookie6572
wookie6572 Joined: 02 Mar 2007 Posts: 1264 Location: United Kingdom, England, Sussex
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My Ex walked out on me and my son 6 months after he was born, saying she needed to be by her self to sort things out, and that she still loved me and our son and that she would be back.

About a week later I had a letter delivered to my door from letting agents addressed to my ex and a bloke I worked with, who had not long left his wife and new born kid.

And when asked she said "It's not what you think, we're just friends"
And then she said "if it doesn't work out can i come back"

Call me old Fashioned but i told her to "Fuck off" that was the worst way i've been dumped.
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29.05.2007, 02:41 quote

ChiefOHara
ChiefOHara Joined: 11 Feb 2006 Posts: 2851 Location: Ireland, Cork, Cork
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Jesus wookie, thats awful.

Im sorry to hear it.

 

29.05.2007, 08:37 quote

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wookie6572 Joined: 02 Mar 2007 Posts: 1264 Location: United Kingdom, England, Sussex
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lol i'm kinda over it now m8 Very Happy

Life's too short
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29.05.2007, 19:54 quote

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wookie mate....... your story is an absolute choker........ i hope you kicked the blokes arse {even tho in truth she betrayed u not him} just to make yourself feel better....... but i have to say for her to do something so despicable she must be a nasty piece of work?........were there no warning signs? i mean you seem like a sharp enough geeza......was it a real bolt from the blue? and dr faust....... you went out with a woman 4 two years then she went over to the other team? jeeeez i dont know who to feel sorry for mate....... you might wanna brush up on the old technique me old china...... learn where the g spot and clittoris can be located...... and shave that hyawge fucking monster of a beard off cos lets face it its not a good look is it?

 

30.05.2007, 02:03 quote

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wookie6572 Joined: 02 Mar 2007 Posts: 1264 Location: United Kingdom, England, Sussex
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cheekyboy36 wrote:
wookie mate....... your story is an absolute choker........ i hope you kicked the blokes arse {even tho in truth she betrayed u not him} just to make yourself feel better....... but i have to say for her to do something so despicable she must be a nasty piece of work?........were there no warning signs? i mean you seem like a sharp enough geeza......was it a real bolt from the blue? and dr faust....... you went out with a woman 4 two years then she went over to the other team? jeeeez i dont know who to feel sorry for mate....... you might wanna brush up on the old technique me old china...... learn where the g spot and clittoris can be located...... and shave that hyawge fucking monster of a beard off cos lets face it its not a good look is it?


I kinda figured there was something going on but you keep telling yourself it's all in your head. Love has a way of screwing with you.I know she was Suffering from postnatal depression at the time, but she wouldn't let anyone help her. And the arsehead from work used that with the old "use my Shoulder to cry on" Routine, And although i'd have loved to have decked my so called work mate, i would have lost my job.(i did however tell him if i ever saw him out of work i'd ram his head into the nearest window, he has since moved to Bognor i think)
i don't stop my ex from seeing our son when ever she want's. Because no matter what she did to me she is still his mother and she does love him.
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30.05.2007, 08:33 quote

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wookie me old son..... you are obviously a good dad, a nice bloke and a model of self restraint....... and its great you dont use your son as a pawn to get back at your wife........ when i'm angry i have a "live and let die" mentality which might satisfy me at the time but at the end of the day it is better to be the bigger man and rise above it with your dignity intact...... something i struggle with sometimes.........

 

30.05.2007, 11:34 quote

wookie6572
wookie6572 Joined: 02 Mar 2007 Posts: 1264 Location: United Kingdom, England, Sussex
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Funny thing is m8 i wasn't always this Level headed. i was short for my age when i was at school and a little tubby, i didn't realy grow much till i was 16. and so i was bullied a lot and had my fair share of arse kickins. as a result i'd grown up to be a very angry young man.
One day i took a long look at what i'd become and hated myself for Allowing a bunch of morons to turn me that bitter and twisted.
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