for the fist 24 years of my life i was adamant that i would never want or have children, but when i hit 25 something changed! dont know what it was but now i want nothing more than to be so in love, that you want the woman who you love so much, to have your children, I'm not talking about knocking any old bird up like some idiot i know someone who's 26 with 6 kids of which half he dosen't see anymore. i'm talking the real McCoy, head over heels stuff, i cant imagine meeting a girl that i felt that way about, no matter how much i liked her i wouldn't have babies with her unless i was in love!

Most single mothers aren't looking for a father for their kids, they're looking for someone for themselves (from my experience at least). They've managed to look after them just fine on their own up until now. Of course if you're a complete bellend around the kids it won't get you any brownie points, but I think potential father material is one of the last things on the list.

Im certainly not looking for a father for my kids, and i would be offended if anyone thought i was, ive been mother and father to my kids for years and i know i can do a good enough job alone. Obviously i would like to meet someone special and id like him to make an effort and get along with my kids but thats all, they dont want someone new in their lives laying down the law and either do i.[/quote]

I thought this thread died a death, well i hoped anyway! lol!
Im sorry u feel u had to say that tinker, i think i was a bit confused when i sent this topic lol!
Like i said, id hoped this was the end of the thread, but hey ho.
Hope your good anyway x

get it all off your chest tinker, let it all hang out Lmao

not you of course, your a lovely man [/quote]

"coughs" ahem, weeeeeeeee!

Happy now!!

i realized that thing so much time ago and i am wondering how come there are so many single mum around the uk.

i dont think it is just a matter of seeking a father for kids, being a mum is a full time job and it needs to be home everytime so as they dont go out that much, they find these sites as a way of socializing.