I'm not quite sure how to start on this one, but anyway here goes.
On a site such as this, you end up messaging between more people than you would probably meet for dating in your usual daily life, and 'cos it's mainly for dating, there'll be quite a few with specific interest in you..... But how can you manage the 'interest' without putting your life 'on hold' when someone wants to meet you (so they say) but then can't meet straight away, or do you plan to meet several people and hope they don't all want to meet at the same time?

I don't feel like I'm getting this right, and I think I'm getting to realise what people have meant by 'no time wasters'
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It's a tricky one, but I don't think I'd hold off on meeting someone just because someone else wanted to meet at some point in the future. Unless the reasons were truly exceptional and so was the person, but until you've met I'd struggle to make a judgement call on that.

Could be that you miss your chance and don't get on well enough with the one you were waiting on anyway.

Now explain to me how I get to the messaging more people than I can cope with stage please.
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I have never had that many people interested in me at once so it's never been an issue.