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Home >> Dating >> Looks vs. Personality
21.06.2007, 15:47 quote
| Minijellytot wrote: |
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Well then we will have to agree to disagree on that one I dont chat to only blokes who are good looking in fact most blokes Ive ever been involved with are not exactly stunners, but ones who look interesting |
What is the difference between good looking and interesting ?
21.06.2007, 15:52 quote
| CharmingDave wrote: | ||
What is the difference between good looking and interesting ? |
some people have very distinguished features, which might not be considered beautiful in the mainstream, but some people will be drawn to them for those kinds of features? maybe? i can be like this, i dont like perfect looking faces, they bore me. shallow maybe but i am what i am what i am
21.06.2007, 15:52 quote
| CharmingDave wrote: | ||
What is the difference between good looking and interesting ? |
Plenty Dave
Don't think I've ever gone out with anyone who was overly good looking. They may have turned heads occasionally, but it sure wasn't 'cos they had the looks of a male model 
21.06.2007, 16:02 quote
@ scottie69 & redoctober
You talk as if there is one idea of "good looking" which everyone agrees upon. Do you really think that this is the case ?
21.06.2007, 16:06 quote
| Quote: |
| which might not be considered beautiful in the mainstream |
when i say this dave i am refering to things that the media throw at us all the time, ie models, hollywood looks etc, like it or not a large proportion of people out there are trying to live up to this ideal, i am just saying that i find that ideal a bit boring and i find beauty where perhaps those people might not. my idea of beautiful is probably different to yours, neither one is right or wrong or better or worse
21.06.2007, 16:09 quote
| CharmingDave wrote: |
| @ scottie69 & redoctober
You talk as if there is one idea of "good looking" which everyone agrees upon. Do you really think that this is the case ? |
Not at all! Which is why some could be classed as 'interesting' and others not. I agree with Scottie in that there are certain features that can be picked out that bring a face to life and make it more interesting to one person than another.
I think it also depends on what you find an attractive feature; for example, one of the first things I look at are a mans hands of all things, another person will look at the eyes/lips/nose etc first and if their favoured feature passes their own idea of what is attractive then it often follows that other, less important features seem more pleasing.
21.06.2007, 16:22 quote
| twistedvoilet wrote: |
| some women tend to look at their package too |
what you mean when the royal mail bloke arrives to deliver?
21.06.2007, 16:23 quote
| twistedvoilet wrote: |
| some women tend to look at their package too |
?
umm... am I being a touch niave Vi when i ask 'what package?'
21.06.2007, 16:42 quote
| scottie69 wrote: | ||||
some people have very distinguished features, which might not be considered beautiful in the mainstream, but some people will be drawn to them for those kinds of features? maybe? i can be like this, i dont like perfect looking faces, they bore me. shallow maybe but i am what i am what i am |
scot had hit the nail on the head
21.06.2007, 16:50 quote
| scottie69 wrote: | ||
when i say this dave i am refering to things that the media throw at us all the time, ie models, hollywood looks etc, like it or not a large proportion of people out there are trying to live up to this ideal, i am just saying that i find that ideal a bit boring and i find beauty where perhaps those people might not. my idea of beautiful is probably different to yours, neither one is right or wrong or better or worse |
OK, time to arrive at my destination. I don't understand why people (not just you) use someone elses idea of good looking to define their own understanding of the word, and then find another word to use to describe what good looking is to them.
It's just not something people do if you were talking about a good film, a good book or a good anything else. So why do it when it comes to good looking ?
When I think of good looking, I'm only thinking of what it means to me.
21.06.2007, 17:02 quote
| CharmingDave wrote: |
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OK, time to arrive at my destination. I don't understand why people (not just you) use someone elses idea of good looking to define their own understanding of the word, and then find another word to use to describe what good looking is to them. |
can you elaborate dave?
21.06.2007, 17:09 quote
| scottie69 wrote: | ||
can you elaborate dave? |
I'm not sure I can.
Does what I said make sense to anyone out there ?
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