I have a realy hard time with this whole dating idea. If from what you all have said so far about personality being more important overall then why is it I'm still alone. It isn't that I'm ugly am I?

Sometimes people are alone for no reason, it doesnt mean that you are ugly sweet

It is really frustrating though. I am the one person in my whole freinds group alone and it frustrates me to no end. All I really want is just a guy I could hang out with and do thing with. No serious relationship right now anyway.

No how u feel all my mates are married with kids, but the old saying is true if you stop looking so hard you may find it

is not looking Phyiscaly possible? lol

Not outwardly looking lol

Personality any day of the week, whats the point in having something pretty to look at if its as dull as dishwater?

Whilst I wouldn't date someone who looked like something out of a horror film, Im not overly picky on looks if the person in question has a good personality to make up for it.
I've learned not to judge a book by its cover (after all, if everyone judged me on my looks alone, Id be up crap creek without a paddle!).

No opinion on that last comment. (up crap creek with no paddle)

No opinion on that last comment. (up crap creek with no paddle)

[quote="annmarie5988"]

This subject is always going to run and run, but it's been proven time and time again that looks are always a foot in the door. If you're physically repulsive your options are limited. Personality is great and all that, but it's not immediately attractive.

How many times have you looked at somebody's profile and instantly dismissed them based on their photo? Be honest now. I'm guessing it's more times than you'd be willing to admit to.

We all love to say personality, but the reality is somewhat different.

[quote="jinja75"]