I know most people judge others just by their looks, but really what does it tell them about you? I am a size fourteen. Oh my gosh I am really human and yet inspite of the fact I have so little fat on me it isn't even funny I am still considered fat by most people in my overly small town. So what is more important to you Looks or Personality?

Probably a bit of both. But I have to click with the person and have matching personalities. Looks can be temporary attraction to me, but a nice personality can improve someones looks imo.

I maybe go out of my way to dumb myself down, but I suspect anyone who met me wouldn't be disappointed, I'm not saying they will fancy me but wont be disappointed. But I wouldnt want anyone to be attracted to a photo.

to me personality is much more important i mean im not gona lie i am attracted to good lookin blokes but if he has a bad personality then it just wont wk.

Its still really frustrating though because of how people have no idea about me. They seem to think I am nothing more than the fat girl who lives on a farm with a passion for animals. It makes it hard for me to find people in general who are willing to look past the outer shell. that's what i find anyway.

I do try to get out, but when your living in a town with 2000 people, that's it. there is no real places to go to, and as for a pic. i am computer illitterate. VERY LIMITED abilities. LOL

I'd rather be with someone with average looks and a stunning personality than someone with stunning looks and an average personality in theory.
But in the real world, I can be fussy enough to expect both!

Peronality is tons more important, but I think that you do have to be physically atrracted to the person too.

Personality is def important, but you don't look across a crowded room and think "Oh, he/she has a great personality" so it starts with looks, then you get to know the person. Sadly we're all superficial wether we admit it or not, but personality can overcome looks everytime. How often have you seen the "Beauty and The Beast" scenerio? More often than you think!

[quote="irishsteveadams"]Personality is def important, but you don't look across a crowded room and think "Oh, he/she has a great personality" so it starts with looks,

Thats why i think these sites are really good as you get to know alot more about someone's personality than you ever would in a Pub or Club. I have met a few guys from here because our personalities have 'clicked' and even if we haven't gone down the dating route, we have still remained friends, which is great. I am definately attracted to someones personaility more than looks, but if he is tall, a bit rough and ready, then even better xxx Ann-Marie