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Home >> Dating >> Looks versus Personality OR you need them both ??????????
26.01.2009, 19:43 quote
Well Claudia I must have read it different from you then. I read it as "I wouldn't be seen in public with him if it turned out he aint exactly good looking, in real life."
That is how I paraphrase it anyways.
Of course I may be wrong. I might have missed something.
What I can understand is falling for/being keen on someone when you get to know him online, then when you meet for real there just is no spark there, but that has nothing to do with 'aint exactly good looking' or minding being seen in public with him.
02.04.2009, 13:04 quote
| jeggae wrote: |
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In my experience, most people will accept good looks and not so good personality far more then not so good looks and great personalty. |
This is very much a subjective thing though isn't it? good personality to you might be boring personality to somebody else or vice versa. If that has been your experience though then fair enough, but no such thing as perfect personalities just as there is no such thing as perfect bodies. Good personality just depends on who is judging it.
02.04.2009, 15:35 quote
| sc0ttie wrote: | ||
This is very much a subjective thing though isn't it? good personality to you might be boring personality to somebody else or vice versa. If that has been your experience though then fair enough, but no such thing as perfect personalities just as there is no such thing as perfect bodies. Good personality just depends on who is judging it. |
Can be subjective but can be generalised.
I had a good personality once apparently, when I didn't have a picture up. Chatting to women all night on msn and indeed some women wanted to meet me. Plenty of flirting on the two forums I go on, this and another.
As soon as I put my pic up.....the msn chats slowed down and stopped in some cases, flirting on the forums stopped, all night scrabble games stopped, women that wanted to meet me ignored me, women that were friends with me probably decided I wasn't as good a friend anymore. Now I'm just ignored by a lot of them.
hey but that's just probably me moaning again
02.04.2009, 17:41 quote
| katie22156 wrote: |
Ima greedy cow i want the lot 
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You'll probably be a disappointed greedy cow then
02.04.2009, 17:50 quote
| jeggae wrote: | ||
You'll probably be a disappointed greedy cow then |
Yesssh How Did You Guess? lol
02.04.2009, 18:16 quote
| katie22156 wrote: | ||||
Yesssh How Did You Guess? lol |
Best not to expect much in life, then you will always be happy
02.04.2009, 18:18 quote
| jeggae wrote: | ||||||
Best not to expect much in life, then you will always be happy |
Im a happy person regardless
I dont need a man to make me happy
02.04.2009, 19:34 quote
| katie22156 wrote: | ||||||||
Im a happy person regardless
I dont need a man to make me happy |
Thats nice
But I can remember a time when a women wasn't allowed to be happy without a man being involved. How things have moved on
...or have they? 
02.04.2009, 19:47 quote
| jeggae wrote: | ||||||||||
Thats nice
But I can remember a time when a women wasn't allowed to be happy without a man being involved. How things have moved on |
I cant rem that time den... Mussa been before my time huh
lol..
02.04.2009, 20:00 quote
| katie22156 wrote: | ||||||||||||
I cant rem that time den... Mussa been before my time huh lol.. |
Probably before you was born
02.04.2009, 20:38 quote
isnt happiness all relative? kinda like how i woudnt want to experience some of the stuff that makes a woman happy lol
happy is such a gay word ((lol no not homosexual gay, just gay! lmao))
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03.04.2009, 08:46 quote
| jeggae wrote: |
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Can be subjective but can be generalised. I had a good personality once apparently, when I didn't have a picture up. Chatting to women all night on msn and indeed some women wanted to meet me. Plenty of flirting on the two forums I go on, this and another. As soon as I put my pic up.....the msn chats slowed down and stopped in some cases, flirting on the forums stopped, all night scrabble games stopped, women that wanted to meet me ignored me, women that were friends with me probably decided I wasn't as good a friend anymore. Now I'm just ignored by a lot of them. hey but that's just probably me moaning again |
could that not just have been circumstance? what if you had not have put a pic up and the same still happened? what would you blame it on then? somebody else having a pic up? If it was just flirting, friendship and scrabble games it doesn't have to be quite such a personal reason for it ending does it? some people take flirting very seriously and some people think its just a laugh and flirt with loads of people. If you are saying your flirting had turned into a relationship then that is different, but if they had not even met you it doesn't sound like anything serious, does it?
All night scrabble....could it be they just got bored of scrabble? "oh no, here comes Jeg, i bet he is going to ask me to play scrabble again with him."
Its not personal but maybe they just didn't want to play scrabble all night anymore?
03.04.2009, 09:15 quote
I think what Jeggae has said does happen, but not exclusively. It is easy to build up a false impression of someone online - filling in the blanks with what you want to believe. Purely text-based communication is far from ideal when it comes to getting to know someone. I'm sure there are plenty of open-minded people out there who would be less judgemental, but it's all a matter of personal preference and being honest. Webcam chat has made things a lot more open.
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