lol i wonder!

I've asked a guy out before. He was a customer, and we'd been blushing at each other for ages, so I asked him out. I later found out my friend had already asked him for his number, telling him I was too shy - No wonder he looked so pleased with himself when I saw him!

I've also messaged a guy first. I put a lot of effort into it, asking him about things he'd mentioned on his profile, and got "Hi sexy!" as a reply. I was a little disappointed.

Hey i am that fed up of being shy, and having just had the talk from a friend as i didnt even realise a bloke was flirting i am on a mission to not be shy, i have sent messages and got replies and love it, mind i think thats the site, you guys make me feel relaxed and some of the posts have me in stiches, not sure how i will move from saying hi and getting to know ppl, to going out on a date, but will worry about it when i have too,

so thanks guys, not been here long but lovin it

Hey i am that fed up of being shy, and having just had the talk from a friend as i didnt even realise a bloke was flirting i am on a mission to not be shy, i have sent messages and got replies and love it, mind i think thats the site, you guys make me feel relaxed and some of the posts have me in stiches, not sure how i will move from saying hi and getting to know ppl, to going out on a date, but will worry about it when i have too,

so thanks guys, not been here long but lovin it

i think its because women take longer to feel attraction towards a guy, u get the whole insecurities which all girls i know complain about. men can usually decide after 3 seconds not exactly sure its a good thing though.

glad to be a bloke tho things are a lot easier!

I don't think I'd ask a guy out...but I'd let him know that I was amendable to the idea of going out with him and encourage him to ask - body language and flirting is a powerful tool! It's funny - guys always think it's their idea! Rx.

yep, ive done the asking and yep ive been shot down, not nice but you gotta pick yourself up and dust yourself down, and it has never stopped me from asking again..sometimes my confidence has worked and sometimes its bit me in the ass

i dont think its right to sit back and let the guy do all the running around, some of you out there are so painfully shy im sure that you would appreciate a girl doing the hard bit

I did it again last week as well. Sadly he's in the middle of a messy break up, so now would probably not be a good time.

I think if you're interested in someone you should always tell them. If you don't then you have to stand by and watch them fall in love with someone else, and you'll always wonder what could have been.

I am so old fashioned...I prefer the guy to do the chasing...

Isn't that just a cop out though?

it is life if you do not ask you never know ..!! never bothered me , if you want something in life go for it ...!!

I have had some really fantastic people in my life all of which i get on with , I only have 5 past partners .

One of them is a famous singer out of a well know metal group ..!!With him i gave him the ran around

But gave in in the end , but i was going through to much at the time which was very sad ..And with him on tour all the time ,it was not going to work out ..

Still love him to pieces thow...