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Home >> Dating >> Ladies, have you done the asking?
11.06.2009, 18:09 quote
I am just interested in how many ladies have taken the first step to ask a guy out? or even the first step to message guys on a dating site?
Would you ask a guy out in a real life situation face to face or is that a no no for you?
Do you prefer to be asked/contacted?
11.06.2009, 18:11 quote
iv sent msgs to guys 1st face to face is a diffrent thing altogther lol do prefer to be asked but no problem in makin contact! 
12.06.2009, 18:23 quote
I can easily take the initiative with messaging and arranging contact on the web, but I'm not likely to do it face to face BUT I would initiate some flirting to encourage a guy to feel confident to ask me out.
I wish I could be more up front, because men always assume I'm not single, yet I've been single for years!
12.06.2009, 19:02 quote
it so true!!
we always have to pop our heads out the trenches to get shot down 
13.06.2009, 07:23 quote
It's so much easier on the net to ask/send first contact but in the real world is a completely different ball game 
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13.06.2009, 08:01 quote
| earthwormjimmy wrote: |
| it so true!!
we always have to pop our heads out the trenches to get shot down |
about 90% of women I ever asked out face to face or on the phone have said yes so I have become quietly confident about it (confident in my approach, not in their answer I mean). Having said that, I usually wait until I feel more than 50% sure that she likes me before asking. I suppose I have lost out on some women by waiting too long to feel that way before I asked them out, but at the same time, it means I have dated some very nice women because of waiting and feeling sure.
I think it all depends on how much a risk taker a person is and how they are able to cope with a rejection/know back. Some people just go for it on a first upon first meeting.
13.06.2009, 14:09 quote
| sc0ttie wrote: | ||
about 90% of women I ever asked out face to face or on the phone have said yes so I have become quietly confident about it (confident in my approach, not in their answer I mean). Having said that, I usually wait until I feel more than 50% sure that she likes me before asking. I suppose I have lost out on some women by waiting too long to feel that way before I asked them out, but at the same time, it means I have dated some very nice women because of waiting and feeling sure. I think it all depends on how much a risk taker a person is and how they are able to cope with a rejection/know back. Some people just go for it on a first upon first meeting. |
Damn, my success rate is about 30%. I think I'd better start finding some easy women to ask out, to improve my stats
13.06.2009, 15:54 quote
| kadushu wrote: | ||||
Damn, my success rate is about 30%. I think I'd better start finding some easy women to ask out, to improve my stats |
Do you keep stats? I was just guesstimating.
Easy women, on here? You must be joking!
13.06.2009, 17:51 quote
i tend to find that by having that daft scooby pic as my main one i get a few msgs fi women even if they are just friendly ones joking about the costume - seems to be a good ice breaker
13.06.2009, 18:33 quote
they love a costume, i once went out as lala and i had women haning all over me, i was wacking them off with sticks lol. the greatest night of my life 
13.06.2009, 19:41 quote
| sc0ttie wrote: | ||||||
Do you keep stats? I was just guesstimating. Easy women, on here? You must be joking! |
Now Now Scottie .......... you trying to say all us FBX women are slappers .........
As for initiating contact ........ No, i dont send messages, but then dont expect any either. I suppose you could say i am one of those shy types
13.06.2009, 21:37 quote
I will send someone a message first if I'm interested in them, would never make the first move and ask them out though 
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13.06.2009, 21:42 quote
I have no problem messaging blokes first.
Or asking them out........now, just need one to say yes
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14.06.2009, 13:05 quote
| annmarie5988 wrote: |
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Now Now Scottie .......... you trying to say all us FBX women are slappers ......... |
On the contrary Ann Marie, more like an elusive bunch!
14.06.2009, 13:53 quote
| sc0ttie wrote: | ||
On the contrary Ann Marie, more like an elusive bunch! |
Oh so now you are saying we are pr*ck teasers ........
Ooooo someone made the first move and sent me a message on here today ........... from a 22 year old guy who lives in Turkey ....... i wonder what he is after .........
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