If you message everyone who catches your eye and lets be fair the visual effect is always going to be present whether you meet on line or in a pub! a human will look 1st then apply their own criteria to the person they focus on if the attraction is mutual then the process is a little easier! But girls and boys how often have you lookrd at someone fancied them then found that your interlect totally voids them? maybe they're dull boring lack the ability to string 2 sentences together! no sense of humour so perhaps a way forward is 1st a photo then a reasonably well padded profilethat really portrays you as a person
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I guess i should reply to this also, yes it is very frustrating, of course my pic does not help and that will be changed soon, just need to find the right clothing, hehe. I get so many dif messages and reply to all, then just weed them out. lately i say whatever there will be one in there one of these days that is good, and for all that is looking just be patient. the fates step in when u least expect it.

the being good now aluria

Aluria you look perfect to me! I spose i've got a tad fed up with wading through scantily attired gay ladies who appear to think that us guys are all perves and sickos the improbable ads due to age differences, the consideration as to the length of time since they've been on line! The fact that i need a large oil can i'm so rusty!! and a dislike of naff chat up lines!!! i've tried short: long messages funny ones seroius and so far very little although i did get a hello from viet nam and one from Africa
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

They messaged me in the only word of english they new" HELLO" i didnt reply!
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

lol FUNNY!!! thats the only word i appear to know

Me too sometimes!!! you know the feeling you meet someone you like and you start a conversation and your mind goes blank!!!!!!!!!
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

DOH!!!! Blank!!!

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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

My god Mr Eccles....... i do beleive you are stuckfor words!!!!!
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TOTALLY STUCK Psst av you noticed we seam to be alone on the forums? wait for it and morillo will pop up soon!!!!
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!

looks like we are!! Hhmmmm MORILLO..now where is he??????? no doubt lurking behind the curtains somewhere???
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So morillos a curtain freak?????
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This guy is liscensed to chill, and thrill, but the opportunities to thrill are rather less than anticipated!!!!